@NGOENYI childbearing SERIES #1: A CHILD|| CHILDBEARING, CAN IT BE BY CHOICE OR BY LOT OR BOTH? 20 STEEM UP FOR GRAB// by @charis20. This post is set on 10% payout to @steemkidss

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Childbearing a choice that couples make or is it by lot or both? Why?

This topic is very dizzy so it is best looked at from a personal perspective. Why I say it is very dizzy is because not everyone believes in the same thing.

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This does not negate the fact that some parents desire to have the blessing of children but it is not possible. There is a 100% God factor in this. But my point goes to when every factor is in place a woman will say, that she will keep giving birth until all the eggs in her stomach get exhausted, well-done woman, do you have a financial plan for all the eggs you are hatching, or do you leave them to faith?

Is childbearing a choice that couples make or is it by lot or both? Why?

In my perspective, childbearing is absolutely by choice. I will have the following points to defend my view.

• Looking at the way the world economy is going, it is best for parents to have several children they can comfortably take care of as children deserve the best.
• Also the level of irresponsibility or moral decadence is increased, everyone that is in one evil act or the other is from the home so you should have children that you can put all your attention on to make sure they become something good tomorrow.
• If you see a child acting rudely, check what happens at home.

When every factor is in place, childbearing should be a choice that both couples make because the man have to do the planting while the woman will do the carrying and tending, nobody will come and help you do that looking at the state of things both economically and otherwise. People will try to convenience you against your decision but when the consequences come they will not be there to assist or they will see the couple as irresponsible. So wisdom profits in giving direction.

When should this question be considered? Before or after marriage?

Well, I will say before marriage. It is one of the critical issues to be considered. You prepare for battle, not in the battlefront but before the battle comes. Although a times there may be changes in order as in the military at least there is a template to follow and even if there is a structural adjustment it will not be far from the previous.

What is your advice to couples who intend to decide to bear a child or children?

My advice is this while eating you don't bite more than you can chew. The same goes for every area of one's life. Take as much as you can accommodate, don't do to please people at the expense of yourself. Critically decide with your patner what you want. Put in your best and Trust God to establish it.

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@charis20