SEC17 WK:#1: Forgiveness unites family
We get a quick recovery when we forgive those that wronged us!
People have different perspective and meanings to this word Forgiveness. To forgive is not an easy thing that is why it is a very uncommon thing in our world today. In other words, forgiveness is the process willfully make to let-off of an anger or vengeance and resentment toward a person who has hurt or been unfair to you.
Forgiveness is very active just like a good medicine. Once expressing a regret or making a restitution with someone that wrong you, it quickly relief the pains, burden from you, restoring back the mind, the body and the soul.
Why Is Forgiveness Important
It is obvious that some people thinks that letting go of grudges towards someone that wrongs you is a waste of energy/time. Oh know dear friend! What we do, have a great impact on us either positively or negatively.
When we forgive, we have a chance of getting this benefits;
Forgiveness lower the risk of heart attack
Forgiveness calm stress levels, less anxiety.
Forgiveness create a strong and healthier relationship.
Forgiveness improve the overall health. Physically, mentally or emotionally.
Forgiveness has the power to lower blood pressure
The benefits of Forgiveness also extend to the immune system by making it to be strong and reducing depression.
It's Improved self-esteem.
Whereas, when you're unwilling to pardon who hurt you, you're likely hurting yourself more because your health will be at stake.
Forgiveness, a great bond of happiness in the family
Oh yes, two lovers are bound to wronged one another but what will make the love to continue in peace is forgiveness. And when they forgive what happened? The bond of love grow and wax stronger than before. Unitement, happiness comes in to play between both of them, making the relationship and the family more loveable, enjoyable and comfortable to stay.
Definitely, the children will wrong their parents and sometimes the parents wronged the children too. The children are learning from what they see, heard expecially at home. When a father let go of what the mother do and the mother do the same to the father, children, friends. The children that see and hear will also practice the habit of forgiveness.
By so doing, we will have an amazing family that dwells in unity and peace.
Experience
My 5month old baby has just started bringing out teeth. I noticed that since the teeth is visible. Anytime am breastfeeding him and he doesn't want to suck, he will crab the nipple and bite me with his face starring steadily at my face to see my action.
If I keep quiet, he will continue doing it but if I say baby don't bite mummy, you're hurting her and I demonstrate in my hand too that am feeling pains. He will smile on me, used one of his hand to carry one leg up and started sucking the breast without biting me again.
Will that smile make me to trust him that he will not bite me any other day? Or will it make me not to forgive him and continue breastfeeding him if he eventually bite me again? Of course no! Forgiving him anytime he bite me, bring in a close friendship of more love, care and happiness.
Do you know why?
His still a baby, he may not know that what he did is right or wrong.
Maybe he want to see from my facial expressions, the extent of love I have for him.
Have A Forgiving Heart
There's this proverbs that says To heir is human, to forgive is divine. Try to forgive others that wrong you. Indulge in you, the heart of humility, humbleness and let go off. This is the only way you will be forgiven too when you hurt another.
Remember, Forgiveness is paramount that's why is among the magic words!
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The quality of forgiveness makes us strong from within and it is very important for the unity of the family but it also has a great impact on our health and we can protect ourselves from many diseases through this quality.
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The benefit we got from forgiveness are all that makes us excited and proud, we feel healthy in our mind and develop a good thinking habit, we great a healthy family and Live in peace with people. We salvage from depression and heavy burdens. Babies are fun of biting their mom nipples whenever they got angry or just don't feel like sucking it, but as a lovely and caring mom, you don't hesitate to forgive your baby because of the huge love you have for he or her, that is motherly love to children. Best of luck friend.
Welcome @bela90! Your exploration of tolerance is both insightful and heartfelt. It highlights the multifaceted nature of tolerance, emphasizing its importance not only for personal well-being but also for fostering strong relationships and creating a harmonious family environment. The benefits of forgiveness I've identified, from reducing stress levels to improving overall health, underscore the profound impact it can have on our lives. Your personal experience with your child beautifully illustrates how forgiveness can strengthen bonds and cultivate love and understanding, even in the simplest interactions. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and experiences on this important topic and we wish you good luck!
Yes forgiveness can be liken to a good medicine that offers relief from any pains or sickness, so is forgiveness when express can lift a burden, whatever heart aches, resentment and anger that we might have felt, although it is not so easy to forgive but we must, if we want to be at peace with ourselves first then humanity. As long as we are living in a world full of imperfect people, people are bound to hurt and offense us. That is why Jesus Christ said,we must forgive those that trespass against us. Success to you