Joined Family System or Sperate Home which one is better for kids upbringing? by @aviral123
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Hello My Steemain Friends ,
How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting contest which is launched by @uzma4882 all time my favourite topic "Joined Family System or Sperate Home which one is better for kids upbringing?" So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic
Family acts as a positive energy for every person. The bonding we have with our family is priceless. The fun that comes in living with the whole family is not found in a separate family. Nowadays most of the people are living in separate families.
The coming generation does not know the meaning of joint family, how to live together, how to stand for the happiness and sorrow of others. Because they are used to living among just three-four people, they cannot imagine a big family. And if the family gets together for a longer period, the children feel that their privacy is being disturbed. So this is a huge negative aspect for children, that they do not know the meaning of family bonding.
Many negative aspects of separate families are seen. For example, if parents have to go out somewhere, there is worry about leaving children alone, worry about their food and drink.
If any problem suddenly occurs or any illness occurs, then no one from the family is there to be there immediately.
- And the most important aspect is that children are not able to mix with their own family, they come to each other's house as guests.
There are many positive aspects of joint family, I can say this because I have lived in a joint family since childhood. And I know many positive aspects of joint family. And now that I am living in a separate family, I understand its minus points also. But what can we do, nowadays the trend has become to live in separate families.
In a separate family there are no responsibilities towards the family. Whereas there are many responsibilities in joining a family. The closeness between people has reduced considerably. Everyone is able to show their affection only for a few moments, everyone's life has become so busy that no one can give their time to anyone. In this fast-paced life, everyone you see is running, yet the person is worried.
While in a joint family responsibilities are also shared and expenses are also shared. Everyone works together in harmony. Everyone is seen standing with each other in happiness and sorrow. But I would also say that if some people in a joint family have negative thinking or are quarrelsome then such a joint family becomes a burden.
Then man becomes enemy even after living under one roof, so in the end I would just say that whether you live in a joint family or a separate family. But don't let love end in mutual relationship. Because this is the strong root of our relationship, love and trust. Feel the relationships, don't let them become a burden.
I would invite my few friends @lirvic , @sualeha , @viajarparasanar ,.
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Hello there! It's great to hear from you and learn about this thought-provoking contest. Family dynamics are indeed fascinating to explore. Your perspective on the benefits and challenges of joint versus separate families is insightful. Living in a joint family myself, I can relate to the sense of shared responsibility and the bonds formed through closeness. However, you raise valid points about the potential downsides of both arrangements. Ultimately, it's essential to cherish the love and trust in our relationships, regardless of the family structure. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 🏡💖
And oh, by the way, your invitation to @lirvic, @sualeha, and @viajarparasanar brought a smile to my face! 😄 Let's keep spreading positivity and engaging in meaningful discussions together. Cheers! 🌟
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You've taken time to narrate the importance of both families. I must tell you there's this joy of living in the extended family, talking about the love, the care, cooperation, etc, though it's has its problems. Dependency and some envious family members makes it difficult.
While the single family is just on its own. You have your privacy and there are no eyes monitoring your growth.
Well done and best wishes.