Forgiveness//10% Payout Goes To @steemkidss//
To forgive nowadays becomes difficult for couples to do, adults carry long faces because of a little misunderstanding but children will fight, quarrel and even abuses each other but the next moment, they can resolve their issues with the third party knowing.
Marriage is interesting as we all know that is the first institution that was ordained or established by God but once a family begins, couples must be able to resolve their differences instantly and basically for the benefit of the children. Children learn very fast and observe everything within them even without uttering a word, so parents please be mindful of what transpired between in front of the children.
Having them as children is a headache but not having them at all is cruises. Wives are to be submissive to their husbands, husbands love your wife as Christ loves the church. There must be a fight in marriage and relationship but in marriage, it should be minimized, and forgiveness should be instant because once this occurs, children notice this and pick an interest, some will be wondering especially when the mom begins to cry or Dad will just go out unnecessarily and this cause for alarm in the children's life.
A male seeing his father beating up his mom, there is everything possible that when that child grows up, he will beat his wife, Mothers that are fun of packing out or going back to parents house due to slice issues, a female child seeing this will copy it and once such lady marries, she will exhibit such character.
To heir is human but to forgive is divine, So we should behave like the little ones and forget about our ego and learn to forgive.
Forgiveness looks so simple but hard to execute in the life of an adult, love can only abide when there is forgiveness, and please in marriage, God never match-make any couples neither any marriage is 100% unique but forgiveness the next neighbor will not know what is happening and please, try to settle your differences alone without their the presence of a third party, makeup and let forgiveness be the only things kids will learn to grow up with.
It is better to tell someone his/her wrong than injuring your heart with heavy thought.
We need to learn the act of forgiveness for our children sake. Thank you for sharing.
Sure, in marriage and as a family, children should be acknowledged, love and corrected with love.
That's for sure.
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Thank you so much @steemkid, I am humbled and loyal to the good deeds of this great community.
That is well said, forgiveness is one of the factors that contribute to a happy marriage. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you madam but family can only be called family when the children arrive, so forgiveness is vital in marriage.
Our children should be our main priority when it comes to settling issues in the house because this children easily learn. Forgiveness should be the watch word when comes to dealings.
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