Contest - Can fear of lose makes your relationships more closed and trustable?
Assalam Alaikum friends, how are you, I hope everyone is fine, I am perfectly fine. All praise to be to the Creator, the Most Merciful. This is very first time, I'm going to participate in the contest. I'm sure you will appreciate my writings.
Fear of losing something, a relative, a person, a friend or love is a natural process that can be found in any human being, especially when a person is very sincere with someone. Does this fear increase intimacy with relationship love or friendship or does this fear increase trust or not?
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If we see a lack of intimacy and trust due to fear of loss, then we see two things in it, that is, trust and intimacy can increase due to fear of being, and sometimes not, that is the answer to this. What fear of losing increases intimacy and trust can be both negative and positive.
Let me explain a little how this can be both positive and negative.First of all we need to know the difference between closeness and trust. There is not as much trust or confidence as there should be and sometimes two people are not as close but they trust each other.
First of all I will share with you how the fear of cornering increases trust and closeness so it is normal that when a person is with someone very sincerely and lovingly, they are afraid of losing them.
Because of this, he protects him a lot and compromises with him and treats him well, which leads to an increase in intimacy between them. If everything happens in front of them, then their confidence also increases.
If I am talking about my personal experience, I stayed with a friend because of the fear of losing him. Which was bringing me closer to him.
Similarly, if we say that the fear of losing does not increase intimacy and trust, there are also examples that in general, in society, no one is close to anyone due to the fear of losing.
Sometimes people are afraid of losing. It further distances them so they don't become suspicious of things they don't understand, so they prefer long distance relationships, but they are actually afraid of losing each other. So, I think the fear of losing sometimes increases intimacy and trust and sometimes not it depends on the psyche and nature of the person how they take it.
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