Instilling Discipline In A Child, How Is It Done In Your Locality By @Akareen
Hi friends,
Parents should start caution their kids from bad behaviour when they are still young, if they grow up with that it may have negative impact on them.
Every society have their form of discipline and it varies from one place to an others.
√ Scolding is one of the discipline common in our locality, this happen when children making a mess or they sent them an errand and they refuse to go.
This mostly done by Nigeria mothers, most kids do not like their parents to blame them in front of their friends.
√ Punishment is another discipline and is not in form of beating or hitting a child with stick. They tell the kids to rise up and close their eyes for like one hours or two hours.
Kids who respond to discipline are the one who turn to new leave and they will live their life positively while others who refuse are the one who join bad gangs.
• Do not harsh with kids, speak to them with gentle word.
• Bring your child to professional counsellor so that it will interact with your child, it will also differential negative behaviour from positive one, during that interaction it will determine appropriate therapy for such kids.
• Do not beat your kids mercilessly so that it will not lead to hospital, caution them with word of advice and encouragement.
• Promise them that you will buy them gifts if they do well in their examine.
The motive is to let your kids obey rule and regulation in your locality and let them know that their is punishment for them if they behave badly.
Thanks you all for reading my post dear member of this great community
Great writeup. The clarity of this post made me feel out of space. You've made a great post here in most of your points. Personally, I'm allergic to harsh words which is a form of discipline in Nigeria. Parents should neither be too harsh or soft on their children. Children vary as to how they respond to discipline that's why discipline with love as you've said is vital. Even our God disciplines us
child should be properly handle, beating, harsh word is not the option
Sure..... You're right but what if a parent thinks he's handling his child properly by pampering him and overlooking certain things? What can you say about this sir? Thanks for sharing once again
Pampering child too much is not good such child can be spoil in that moment.. Like i said in my post give him punishment not beating, Punishment like rise up your hand and close your for like 2 hours is okay and other kind of punishment like that
Okay....Nice one....
Yea, but sadly the African homes believe cane is the only option. Talking rashly will make them come back to their senses.
God help us
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You have written well boss, thanks for the invite.
Hi @akareen, your thoughts about discipline is very brilliant. It's true that discipline helps a child to distinguish between what is right and what is wrong thereby helping him to become a better adult in the future. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us in this contest
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