SEC17 WK:#3: large and small families, likes and dislikes
Assalam O Alaikum |
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Hello dear friends! How are you all? Well come to my post. I hope you will be doing well by the grace of Almighty Allah. I'm also fine and enjoying my day. Today I'm here to participate in this Steemit engagement challenge season 17 week 3 in this Steem Kids & Parents community. The topic of this challenge is "large and small families, likes and dislikes". So let's start without any more delay of time.
large and small families, likes and dislikes |
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Friends, according to me when someone is get married he make different plans for his upcoming life along with his partner. In this regard they plan how they will meet with their financial needs, how they will manage household chores and how many children they will produce. Because all these things are very important for a successful married life and the people who neglected these things especially the length of their family, they can't live their lives happily.
The large and small families and have a great influence on the lives of parents and children also they have different consequences. Almost the educated People plan their children and the length of their family right according to their own perspectives and their financial status. So in most of the cases they try to have at least 3 three children so they can bring them up nicely and provide them with all of their needs.
But I have also witnessed a lot of cases in which the people get married and started producing children. In this regard they don't think about the basic needs of their children such as proper nutrition, education, a good future and other financial needs as well. Then there a time comes in which they remain unable to understand what to do because the length of their families increased UpTo more than 10+ members.
Large family likes and dislikes |
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Mostly in large families the kids remain deprived of their basic rights if their parents are poor. This is because in most of the cases the parents are financially unstable to which they remain unable to focus on the basic needs such as education, good health and proper nutrition. So due to all these things their kids have to do work as a labourer even from their young ages. Sometimes the kids fight in the house and make a lot of noise which is also a negative impact of having a large family.
These things are a big question for those parents who don't think about the future of their children before giving them birth and increasing their families. Also when you have a large family you need to have a large vehicle for traveling and sometimes it becomes difficult to carry the small kids during traveling. In addition the parents remain unable to keep an equality between their children in fulfilling their needs and rights.
There are also some positive aspects of having a large family because if you are rich and can easy manage more than five kids then they will definitely provide you many benefits in future. As if they will be provided with all of their needs such education then they will succeed in their future which indirectly of provide you a lot of benefits. Also in large families you can get a company of different people for playing a doing other things.
Small family likes and dislikes |
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On the other hand the small family has its of consequences, likes and dislikes. Also it provides us a lot of benefits such as we can easily manage our financial needs, we can provide all the needs of our kids easily and make their future bright. Also having a small family allow us to give our attention to every kid nicely. Also we can educate each and every child and make their futures brighter by providing them the light of education.
But having a small family also have some negative aspect because the kids may isolate and resist their activities such as playing, studying and performing other tasks because they have low companionship. The kids may lack of communication, emotional support and guidance due to having a small family.
My Preference |
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Friends getting married not means that providing kids because it is a valuable relationship of love, support and an incredible company of your partner. So keeping that aspect in my mind I will never like to have a large family and too many kids. Yes I will get married I will prefer a small family which will consist of only 3-4 kids. This is because I will focus on doing an extensive care of my kids in terms of providing them all their basic needs and rights.
I will try to make my kids a valuable person for my country and society by providing them a good education, financial support, good diet, comfort and emotional support. Also I will focus the brighter future of my whole family instead of spending my time in planning for more kids and increasing the length of my family. The kids are one of the greatest blessings of Almighty Allah but we waste them when we remain unable to provide them all of their needs in their childhood.
So friends that was my entry about that challenge and I hope you will enjoy reading it. Now it is a time to say goodbye to everyone and I want to invite my friends @mesola, @paholags, @uzma4882 and @abdul-rakib to take a part in this amazing challenge.
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Thank you so much @f2i5 sir for your love and support 😊
Congratulations dear! you are doing a great job on up steemit platform and with your hard work and dedication•
Thanks bro 😊
Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 17 in the Steem kids and parents Community.
Hi, you made a very good decision that :
This is very interesting, keep building a good family with love. May you always be happy my friend.
Thanks bro for your kind evaluation ☺️
¡Holaaa amigo!😊
Respeto mucho a las personas que tienen hijos bajo el pensamiento de que, se necesita extender la generación pero, siento que esto es una total responsabilidad cuando no se han analizado los contextos porque, más allá de tener hijos por cumplir con la sociedad, debemos estar seguros si tenemos todo lo elemental para garantizarles bienestar ya que, no me parece justo tener hijos cuando no les podré cubrir sus necesidades básicas y mucho menos garantizarle un futuro estable.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica... Un fuerte abrazo💚
That's true... And some of the families neglect the basic needs and rights of their children when they have a large family which costs them heavily in the future. So we should avoid these things.
Your decision of building your small family up with love and care is very important and encouraged, I love that spirit in you.
It's better than trying to make a large family that you won't have the capability of funding a good life for them.
Nice post, and success to you.
Yes dear that is why I will prefer to have a small family. Thanks a lot for a lovely comment 😊
You're welcome.
Yes this is very amazing and I will say that you are really ready for good parenting when the time comes. I can't wait to be in Nigeria and see pictures of your cute babies when the time comes 🤣.
I was more curious as I was scrolling down ward because i was expecting to see pictures of you and your family. I haven't seen your family before.