Regards,
Charity is a blessing to the needy, which is done by humane people. It is better to start from the house of charity and Islam says so. First we have to look at our relatives whether any of them are having a miserable day. Charity is inspired by our humanity which comes from compassion and kindness for others. Charity should be about putting smiles on others' faces, not about broadcasting yourself as charitable. Your writing is enjoyable and beautiful.