5 Simple Tips To Get Rid Of Selfishness In Your Relationship

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This time I will try to share what I have experienced in my personal relationship. Yes, as usual, these are simple tips that I will present to you. Who knows there may be many people who need it in a relationship. Honest One of the main issues that can destroy a relationship is selfishness. True or true? I'm sure it's true. Because miscommunication and the desire to win themselves that eventually trigger a fight, it all starts with a high sense of selfishness. If you want to expect a harmonious relationship, make sure you and your partner can overcome this selfish feeling. This is my personal version of how to get rid of selfishness in relationships that I will present to all of you and I hope you like it.

1. You must always instill good prejudice in your partner

Well in this case having a good prejudice against a partner is very important to prevent fights in relationships. When you feel suspicious or disappointed with your partner, instill that he or she is okay. He didn't mean to hurt your heart. Also think that the relationship you are in is a mature relationship so you can't just focus on one side's selfishness. Ok I'm sure it can be set emm!!

2. You must try to be a good listener to your partner

As usual and often sounds difficult, it's hard to listen to your partner's chatter when he's angry, especially if you're being blamed. However, if you follow your ego and get angry with it, it won't fix anything. Instead, try to be a good listener. Listen to every complaint he makes and try to understand. No need to interrupt the conversation, or try to find a solution right away, because what he needs right now is a good listener.

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3. You must solve the problem through discussion with your partner

Now in this case you need to pay attention, after the situation is calm and you can think clearly, take the time to discuss the problems at hand. Remember, discuss to find the right solution, not to blame each other. Try to understand each other's point of view without being judgmental and feel like you're the best. Remember, a lasting relationship does require sacrifice and hard work from both parties.

4. Do and dampen emotions by remembering good memories with your partner

Think and always think! When you feel your emotions are bubbling and it feels unstoppable, inhale and exhale slowly. Then imagine beautiful memories with your partner. That way, your emotions will be dampened. Anger will slowly get better. When you feel calm, hug your partner and say the word (I'm sorry dear)

5. To keep yielding

Maybe it's not your fault but by giving in, you can avoid unnecessary fights. At least until the couple's emotions are completely stable. Make sure you don't judge him either, especially when his emotions run high. It's not that you feel right, you're only going to get hurt. If you are in a situation like this, silence and surrender is the best option you can do anywhere.

Those are 5 simple tips that I often do in real life in relationships, namely how to get rid of selfishness in relationships. Remember and Iemphasize, this method can only apply if you and your partner both try to try it and become the best version of yourself. I wish you success too and good luck!

That's all I can share about - 5 Simple Tips To Get Rid Of Selfishness In Relationships and hopefully useful.

See you again in my next post. Thank you for reading. Stay safe and stay healthy. Health is Wealth.

Regards!🙂

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