Steemit Engagement Challenge Week # 3 || Defend The Statements || by @nadeesew- 15% set to pak-charity

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Hello steemians,

Today I came up with the engagement challenge III this week and it is really interesting. There are 4 statements that we can defend so let me share my ideas with you.

A women's place is in the Kitchen

This is a critical topic to comment on. A women is considered as the key of a family. In early ages women are kept only in the kitchen and asked to cook and feed the family. But now the situation has changed. Girls are given a good education by their families. So they become educated and also graduated from high reputed universities. This has made the women come out of the kitchen and explore the world.

Women engage in many activities outside the home. She has the ability to work in a company and also there are many managers and executives who are ladies. Women who have different abilities and skills now show them to the world and they also help in generating income for the family. They do it while engaging in household activities too.

Women do a job which cannot be paid or which cannot assume a salary. I have seen most of women engage in self employment and they also become stable in the society without depending only on father or husband. This in turn is a help for the family. When the wife does a job or self employed she is also a strength for the family's economy. It is a relief for the husband or father too.

So not like past era now women is educated and have a good knowledge about the society. Women cannot be cheated easily now as she know who people are with the experience. So according to my opinion women should not be kept inside the kitchen hiding their skills and abilities.

Women also can take responsibilities in the society. The best example is the Queen Elizabeth. She is more than 96 years old now and still she has the crown. Whole kingdom and the colonial countries are still under her rule and even colonies do not want to be separated as they know that the lady can do the best for the world. There are many more examples that we can see from the pas that women rise up and shine in the world and being a strength to the family at the same time. So I recommend women should not be kept inside the kitchen.

You will stay happier if you are unmarried

The statement that a person can stay happy without a marriage is a bit critical. Some people who have suffered a lot from a marriage may say that being single for life time is happier than being getting married and suffering. But a person who leads a successful marriage life with the partner and children will say that a marriage is happier than being single for life time.

According to my point of view the life is so complicated. We need to find a matching partner to see whether he or she is good for us. There are factors that we consider like qualities, skills and abilities, education level that we expect from our partner. If they are matching for us then we can live with the person we select. The marriage life should be led with good mutual understanding between the two partners.

If two got married they should enjoy their lives. They can go for traveling and they can do what ever the other one likes to do together. There should be a good bond between both. There will be no any misunderstandings if there is a bond between two of them. If having children the family should enjoy the life all together. The marriage life is so delighted if the children are having good manners with good qualities in them and the partner is supportive and understanding.

On the other hand the single life will be better rather than living with a person who doesn't understand you. If the wife or husband is being torchured mentally or physically by the partner or any other family member then that life is a miserable life. Children in the family should be with good qualities and support. If the family life is led without any support, love, affection and caring from the family members then it is good to be single in life time.

No one is born to the world to be neglected and mentally or physically torchured so in that case being single is a good option. You can enjoy your life in whatever the way that you like because no one is there to disturb or trouble you.In my opinion being single or married to be happier is a choice that should be done personally according to the situation.

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This is the end of my post. Thank you for reading and have a good day.