STEEMIT ENGAGEMENT CHALLENGE WEEK 3 | BE THE CRITICAL THINKER WE WANT TO SEE | DEFEND THE STATEMENT | BY @feyol55
Good day everyone, I want to specially welcome everyone to the 3rd week of this Steemit engagement challenge. It feels good to write and post in this amazing community (STEEMIT PAKISTAN), special thanks to the admins for bringing up a wonderful topic for us this week again. In this article, I will be discussing and defending these 3 statements below.
YOU WILL STAY HAPPIER IF YOU'RE UNMARRIED
VOTES ARE NOT GUARANTEED - SC01
MONEY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN LOVE
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As we all know marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities especially for the men. When you are still single, you tend to have all the freedom in the world to do whatever you like. You can choose to eat whatever you want, you can visit places you like, you can drink as you want, you can visit places you like or visit your friends, you can always leave home and come back any time you want but you see the moment you are married, all the freedom will disappear like a flash. In marriage, you become like a programmed robot who has no freedom, is limited and being controlled around. You will realise you can't do most of the things you love doing again, your mind and heart will be attached to your family because you wouldn't want to dissapoint them.
Marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities and besides only few get to marry their soulmate and find happiness. If you check around you will quite agree with me that we now have more break-ups, divorce and domestic violence on the rise, it's now rampant more than never before which shouldn't be. I think a lot of married men if given the chance again won't love to get married because most of them already entered before they realise it's all but a trap. I'm not saying marriage is totally bad but one needs to be careful when making this decision on who to spend his/her rest of life with. Without mincing word, I will say people who are single live a more happier life than the married ones.
I have come to realise that a lot of people have the misconception that their posts must be voted or curated on the Steemit platform at all times, meanwhile that's a big fallacy, it isn't true. As we all know Steemit blockchain works with the Proof of Brain system which means you get rewarded by the measure of how good you are with writing and how you can use your brain to be innovative and strategic. Some people do not write well and some don't write and post within the confines of the rules laid down, all this always goes a long way in determining whether your post or article will be curated or not. So I will implore everyone of us to read the communities and contests rules properly before engaging them. Besides, we have thousands of Steemit users who post everyday so it's practically impossible to vote and curate everyone in a day, it's just totally impossible. So what is required here is patience and hardwork. Keep writing and keep posting, when you do so, your turn will come and you will be rewarded handsomely by the Steemcurators so I will like to remind us again that votes are not always guaranteed !
Whether you like it or not, you can't do without money, infact you reading this article now, there is a 99% probability that you've spent money today so what are we saying in essence, money is very essential and important to our sustainance and survival. Money makes the world tick, as humans we can't do without money.
On the other side, many of us can do without love, infact most of us here are probably still single and not married and we are still busy chasing our dreams. It might be hard to accept but the truth is there can be no love without money. Money makes love sweeter hence I can boldly say money is more important than love. Money answereth all things according to what my Bible even told me, when you have money, every other things in life including love will come to you, you can achieve your dream and purpose in life with money but love can't do that. I will end this by saying heart break and deceit accompanies love but value, honour and respect accompanies money. I hope you got something from this.
It's very important to understand and know that all of us can't belong to the same school of thought. Hence I have been able to vehemently support and defend the three motions which are : 'you will stay happier if you're unmarried', votes are not guaranteed - SC01' and 'money is more important than love'. If you have a contrary view to what I have stated in this post, kindly drop a comment below and I will love to chat with you on this, thanks for reading !
I want to invite my friends @baycan @drqamu @graceleon @solexybaba @beckie96830 to participate in this contest
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Thanks for mentioning me. I'll take part soon.
honour and respect accompanies money. I hope you got something from this.
It seems oversimplification and generalisation based on half explorario of reality . Let me give an example.
People having huge bucks earned out of illegal means don't get respect in th society. However , they are being cursed .
Anyways nice post .
La decisión de casarse es algo delicado es mejor pensarlo muy bien, en parte me dio gracias como dices que los hombres pierden la libertad, la verdad es que si el amor es genuino y se demuestra confianza desde un principio de ambas partes será una relación sana y sin ataduras extremas.
You are absolutely spot on, we have very few healthy relationships now adays, most people are into abusive and toxic relationships and most people enter into this for selfish reasons and gains. Thanks for reading through friend.
Thank you for taking part in the challenge.
Don't forget to interact with other contest participants by commenting and upvoting their posts.
Thanks for the review admin !
Bence evlilik doğru kişiyle yapıldığı zaman mükemmel bir uyum içerisinde mutlu şekilde yaşanılır.
Aşk mı para mı derseniz aşkı tercih ederdim... Aşk çok kutsal ve değerlidir parayla ölçülemez. Gerçek aşkı yakaladığınız zaman parayı görmez gözünüz.
Güzel konular seçmişsiniz ve güzel söylemişsiniz ellerinize sağlık.
I quite understand you, well you know what works for A might not work for B, it's all good though, whether love or money, just follow what makes you happy
Saludos @feyol55, estar soltero en efecto te da mayor libertad de hacer lo que quieras por que no le rindes a nadie, solo a ti mismo, pero el ser humano es inconforme y si estas soltero mucho tiempo vas a querer estar casado y viceversa. Esa estadistica difiero en algo ya que en los tiempos de nuestras abuelas el maltrato del hombre hacia la mujer era de puertas adentro y nadie sabia, si observas los hombres de 30 o 40 años se casaban con niñas de 12 0 15 años. No habia divorcios porque no se les permitía.
El dinero es sumamente esencial, ya que adquieres todo con el y tu felicidad esta de la mano con el.
I will go with your last statement, money is essential and important but like have been telling people since, make sure you do what makes you happy and fulfilled, thanks for reading through, I appreciate.
Friend, you have some reason in the first statement, but I think you have taken it to the extreme, that is, as long as you know how to choose everything will be fine and divorce does not mean that your life ended, you should simply get up again and move on.
If I have to choose, I prefer love over money. Money can always be obtained in some way, but love cannot, it is very difficult to get sincere love. Money comes and goes, no matter what you do.
Anyway, it is nice to read other points of view, especially if they are married people or successful people with a lot of money.
#affable #venezuela
Hmmm, i understand your point friend, well we can't always have the same point of view or think in the same direction, but i think it's just better to follow your heart and follow what makes you happy
Of course friend, the interesting thing about this is that we can see different points of view and learn new things, thank you for being so understanding.
#affable #venezuela
Lolz are you sure you are single boss. Because the way I'm looking at you ehh, ok i won't say a thing. But you are right there, money id more important when compared to love. With money you can spice love, in fact money awakens lost feelings oh. Nice article sir.