How I Taught Myself Not to Care What Other People Think || By @bilaldar113
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How I Taught Myself Not to Care What Other People Think
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There is no doubt that caring about what other people think of you can be extremely taxing. The more you care, the more it controls your life and the less time you have for yourself. But learning how to not care can be difficult, so here are some tips on how to stop worrying about what others think of you:
Tips
- Stop comparing yourself to others because everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.
- Be aware that if people don’t like something about themselves, they will often dislike things about other people too.
- Don’t let negative comments get under your skin; remind yourself that these thoughts come from a place of insecurity or jealousy (or both).
- Remember that the opinion of one person is not worth spending too much time thinking about.
- If you find yourself holding back on doing something because it might make others think poorly of you, remind yourself that it’s OK to be different
- Do what makes YOU happy, not what others want you to do.
- Don’t compare yourself to other people; set your own goals and achieve them.
- Accept compliments with grace by saying "thank you."
- Admit when you make a mistake and be open to criticism; it will help you grow as a person.
- Don't be afraid to make mistakes. You are not the sum total of the things you do wrong, so don't let it keep you from doing what you want!
- Remind yourself that it's OK to be your own person. You can't let other people define who you are.
- If you let other people define who you are, then their opinions have power over your life. Know that YOU define who you are and that YOU have the power to escape other people's opinions over your life.
- You are in charge of your own happiness, so you have control over whether you choose to be happy or not.
- If you find yourself worrying about what other people think of you, ask yourself why it matters so much. What’s the worst that can happen? If you answer is, ‘Nothing that I can’t handle!’ then ask yourself why you’re worrying in the first place.
- Ask yourself whether the things people say about you are actually true - because chances are they aren’t!
- Remind yourself that you only get one shot on this planet; make it your best one.
- Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want; life is too short!
- It doesn’t matter if other people think you’re weird; it really doesn’t matter.
- Surround yourself with positive, like-minded people who support you and you will not feel the need to care what others think of you.
- Do your best to be a good person, and if people have a problem with your choices, let them deal with it.
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You may find yourself caring about what others think sometimes, but try to remember that you are more than just a collection of other people’s thoughts! You are the master of your own mind, so use that power to be happy and to do what makes you happy, and eventually other people’s opinions will not be able to bother you.
You can do it! You can stop caring about what other people think of you!
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Amazing post
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Brilliant 😘
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