Family Is A Gift That Lasts Forever | Steem Sri Lanka 3G Contest Series | Week 10 |5% to SL charity
Hi, to all of you. I would like to lovingly remind ,I believe that everyone is well by working carefully and healthily on a daily basis. I am very eager to participate in this contest. Thanks for hosted this nice initiative @thisarani96.
My family consists of five members. First of all, I'm staying at my husband's house after marriage. We have a beautiful three-year-old daughter. My husband's mother and father are with us in that house along with me, my husband and daughter. My husband is thirty-six years old. He is the warehouse in-charge of a leading private company. After I got married, I worked for about a year. After giving birth to my daughter, I quit my job for her. I am now thirty-two years old. My mother-in-law is sixty-two years old. She is a housewife sewing carpets as a self-employment. My father-in-law is seventy-four years old, he was the chief security guard at a tourist hotel and is now retired.
My role is not trivial. Especially since I live with adults with different environment, that's not a mistake, because I lived with my parents, two brothers and one sister until I was twenty - eight years old. After marriage came a completely different environment. So little by little I got used to this new environment and for that my husband was still with me like a shadow. A daughter-in-law in a home is completely different than a daughter. Freedom is limited. I need to wake up in the morning. Meals need to be prepared.
I woke up at three in the morning to start the day because I had a new job the days when I came here. I wake up, prepare a meal, sweep the house, and leave for work at 6:30 in the morning. I come home at 7 pm after work.All I had to do was come and do my work. The weekend was cleaning, gardening, husband's work, all done with passion, because this is my new home. Mother-in-law and father-in-law were close to their relatives, so I worked hard.Really happy, my husband helps me to the fullest. He is on leave only on Sundays. Help me cook with me for the day. They go to the shop and bring the goods. Helps to clean around the house. Every other day my mother-in-law did all the work I could not do when I went to work. Performed, helped to take care of my daughter after birth, I did with her help the work I could not do because of the baby. She was a great support to me. The same is true now.
Not to mention the special things in this family. But since I live in a village, the way I live here is different. I was involved in social work in the village. He taught in the village Dhamma school. Some of us in the village are united with that work. There was no share redemption. But this family does not go out of their homes and talk often. Attend only what is necessary. They are more united only with family.
*My husband had a hundred percent cinnamon garden when I had fond memories. So my mother-in-law and I used to go to that garden when there was a holiday. There was a lot of natural environment in that garden that I love to see a lot of fruit. There were a few as well as large boulders. I remember the fruitful days when mangoes and avocados were plucked and my mother and I would sit on a rock and talk. Now that estate has been sold. *
Speaking of which, you know the arguments of the mother-in-law's daughter-in-law. That's what happens. I need a little more cleanliness, so problems arise when that is not the case. At that time we will talk and resolve. Or remain silent until the issue is resolved. Arguments don't go too far. Otherwise my condition is not good. A family is really essential. Even though we can be happy individually, especially when we are happy, when sadness, trouble, or helplessness are lonely, family members are quick to help. And we are always there for each other. My mother-in-law helps me to be like my mother when I get sick. Nursing. My father-in-law helps with everything I can. My mother-in-law, my father-in-law, my husband, whenever they need me, my husband is the best person I have ever had after marriage. The most precious gift we received from him was that we all live in harmony with our daughter. For me, this family is very important, very proud, and a precious jewel.
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Thank you so much.
This is the first article I have read from a daughter-in-law's point of view. This is something that every daughter has to face. We have to get used to living with a lot of responsibility in the midst of new people in a new environment. So there, we should have the best person beside us to support us after our parents. I'm happy that you got such a family who is very lovely and supportive to you. Wishing you every success! 💗
Good luck with the contest!
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In fact, living with a family is different than living with two, so patience must be mastered 400 percent. That is how endurance should be. Because a son has been with his mother for about thirty years After a while, the mother becomes jealous when her son comes in contact with an outsider. This can be selfishness that comes from enduring love. So I think the role of the daughter-in-law is huge in a mother-in-law's house.
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