My secret of successful married life | 5% for SL-CHARITY

in Steem Sri Lanka3 years ago

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As you can see in my wedding photo me and my wife fight a lot. Our love life started on 16th June 2010. We started to fight from September 2010. Fighting is like second nature to us. Reason for our fighting is because both of us have "second to none" attitude. We got married on 10th January 2019. Unlike the time when we were lovers we had to find a solution for our fighting after we got married. Because fighting when we are together is not easy. Once we had a fight some times it took days to settle down. Fortunately we managed to find two golden solutions. We still fight, but only for very short time. Now I am going reveal my secret. It may sound crazy, but it works every single time.

1. We use a bowl to eat, not plates.

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We dont use two seperate plates to eat. Instead we use one single bowl. Only one person is allowed to touch the food during a meal. So that person has to feed the other person. For example if I am allowed to touch the breakfast, my wife is allowed to touch the lunch. Then dinner is my turn and next day breakfast is my wife's turn. Even if we had fight we had to settle down when it is time for the meal. We were practicing this method for about one and half years now. Though we are fighting everyday it lasts only till the meal time.

2. Alger the dog

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Getting Alger maybe one of the best decisions in our lives. After he joined our family things have changed a lot. Intensity of fighting reduced drastically. We start the day only when this guy jumps to our bed and licks our faces. He does it every morning, amazingly at exact same time. Negativity vanishes when he is around. Best part is when he hear us fighting he immediately comes to us and start his magic dance. So absolutely zero chance of fighting when he is around. We don't put him in a crate. He sleeps on a bed placed in our bedroom. So he is always around.

Summary

Married life is not easy. It is very challenging, sometimes very exhausting. Girlfriend/boyfriend life is 100% different than the married life. About half of the married couples get divorced within the 1st year. We need to find our own ways to save and enjoy our married life. Hopefully this article will be helpful to young couples who are going to get married in the future.

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Though we are fighting everyday it lasts only till the meal time.

That is interesting 😍

We dont use two seperate plates to eat. Instead we use one single bowl. Only one person is allowed to touch the food during a meal

Very creative way.. Was it easy to practice?

Married life is not easy. It is very challenging, sometimes very exhausting

😐😐😐😐 a very useful article share us more.

Same couple, eh?

We dont use two seperate plates to eat.

This is so sweet 🤗. Looks like your method worked out well.

So far so good

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Wow thank u aiye. You have presented some very important points for the future of anyone

We got married on 10th January 2019

You have been in love for 9 years before marriage🥺 So nice😍🥰

Even if we had fight we had to settle down when it is time for the meal.

This one is one of the best method that I have ever heard of. Thank you for sharing😊

Eating with partner means a lot. It is a really good sign of a lovely marriage life.

Wow, this is great. This is the best solution I've ever heard for fighting!! 😍

Worked so far

We use a bowl to eat, not plates.

It's a nice idea. 😍
Anyway Um gonna live a single life as long as possible.😄

Good choice!

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