"Beware of Bullying"

in STEEM INDONESIA9 months ago

Bullying is an act of intimidating someone to do something that he or she is not ready to do, most especially when using repeated coercion. Bullying is what I have discussed in this post.


During your life, have you ever received bullying? If so, in what form? physical, verbal, or through cyberbullying. Provide your review.

Bullying is something I have received so much during my life. In school, and at home I have received bullying in different ways. The bullying that I received in an army barracks was the bullying that pains me most which I felt embarrassed about due to the way a soldier messes me up.

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There was a day I was expecting someone during the period of COVID-19 19 which was when people were allowed to go out of their houses a female friend decided to visit me in the barracks so she could learn how to buy and sell crypto on Binance exchange which I agreed and told her to come inside the barracks where my parents are residing.

As the lady came, she stopped at the gate and called me to come and carried her inside which before going to meet her a soldier man had already been discussing with her, which I excused them. After some minutes the same soldier man who where interrogating her, turned his anger on me, and began intimidating me, telling me to knelt and raise my hands.

I received punishment from the soldier man for committing no offense and to date I am trying to know the reason why I was bullied by the soldier man in front of my visitor and other people who were present at the gate.


How do you equip your children to avoid bullying either at school or in their social environment?

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I will equip my children to avoid bullying either at school or in their social environment the right things for them to do and some of the things are shared below.

  • I will teach my children to take bullying seriously, by making them understand I as a parent will not tolerate bullying at school or in their social environment. With this type of instruction, I will set rules about bullying for them to obey.

  • I will teach my children to treat other people with kindness and respect, and I will tell them is wrong to interfere in other people's matters and discussions, and disrespect others.

  • I will study my children's social life and encourage them to show good behavior wherever they find themselves.

  • Finally, I will communicate with school management, to discipline any of my children that bully someone child.


Give your opinion on how to overcome bullying in the form of physical, verbal, or cyberbullying

There are many ways of overcoming bullying in form physical, verbal, or through cyberbullying some of the ways are:


  • Report any bullying case to someone respected who is an adult to help you out.

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When you are being faced with bullying and you don't report the case to someone you will continue to be facing bullying the easiest way is for you to report it to someone who can help you.


  • Try to get over how you were being bullied by laughing it out.

Now this depends on the type of bullying that you received no matter how the bullying may be to you, you should just laugh it out, which is a great of overcoming bullying.


  • Practice self-defense and respond to intimidation.

Don't respond to intimidation in an ash way nor try to be violent instead think of using polite words to settle disputes.

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 9 months ago 

Honorable @josepha sir,,,

Bullying is one of the many bad things that happen in our life. You have been bullied many times in your life in bar, school and even in army barracks. During covid 19 when a friend of yours came to visit you, an army man misbehaved with you is really painful. You will teach your children to take this bullying seriously which is effective in preventing bullying. We should not be afraid of those who do horrible things like bullying and try to protest against them. Voice should be raised against bullying by using good language instead of using bad language. Then bullying just stops and will be completely eradicated.

 9 months ago 

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 9 months ago 

Bullying is common these days in certain parts of the world. And with the invention of online websites, it has reached your homes without your knowledge. Thanks for a nice write-up, my best wishes.

 9 months ago 

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Que terrible experiencia con ese soldado viviste, en los cuarteles y bases militares el acoso es extremo y bastante dañino por esta razón siempre hay consecuencias luego que salen de esos lugares

 9 months ago 

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 9 months ago 

Hello friend

You shared how the bully has affected you negatively how you were bullied by a soldier in front of your friends and visitor too, the visitor came so you could teach features of trading to the person and you were humiliated told to kneel down and raise your hands amidst lots of intimidating stuff. I'm sorry you had to go through alot of this. I enjoyed your entry and success in the challenge my dear friend

 9 months ago 

Thank you for your support.

 9 months ago 

Hello friend @josepha

Bullying is a reality that you can be a victim of in less expected circumstances like the one you faced. The soldier's aggression towards you is humiliating and disappointing, since there was no reason to do it.

Any act of aggression is a sign of harassment. I hope you have found the reasons for your harassment, although nothing is justified in the face of this violation of the rights of life.

This lived experience of bullying leads you to give your children the best lessons so that they do not become victims as in your case.

God bless your life and family more. Success.

 9 months ago 

Thanks for your compliment.

 9 months ago 

Happy and successful day, friend.

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