SEC -S15W2 : "Beware Of Bullying"

Hello friends and welcome to this episode of SEC -S15W2 in this great community. I do hope we are enjoying the challenge. Here is my active participation.

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"During your life, have you ever received bullying? If so, in what form? Physical, verbal, or through cyber bullying. Provide your review."

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Growing up as a kid, I come from a home fathered by an ex-military officer and mothered by an extremist in discipline on kids. I can never go a day without threats on heavy bullying. If I didn't do the right thing or pass my examinations. The form of bullying which was prevalent at home was the physical bullying which was a tradition. If you make a mistake or take a bad decision in doing the wrong thing, there is always a negative consequence.

Moreso, the scenario of physic bullying which I would never forget in a jiffy was that point when I was playing with mybsiblings in the living room with a football, we took turns throwing the ball into space, was that a good idea? It was fun after all till things went south, mine went into the space and hit the chandelier lights heavy was the charring crash! The sound brought the room to a stand still for some seconds and immediately everyone came racing into the sitting room.

However, the grin on my dads fave made my heart skip severally like a wounded hungry lion, he pounced on me at reflex and rained on me slaps, reoccurring blows, cursing and yelling at me. I can understand because the chandelier cost a fortune! I was heavily bullied that I ended up with a black eye, after loosing my milk tooth, so lucky for me though. I was barely 10 years old and that was a painful episode of physical bullying which I would never forget.

sourcebullying leaves pain to the soul!

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"How do you equip your children to avoid bullying either at school or in their social environment."

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There are various ways to equip our kids to avoid bullying either in their social environment or at school, I would be sharing some here with us.

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Build their Boldness

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Kids tend to be easily intimidated by people, mostly unfamiliar faces, they get nervous and panic at any point of danger, therefore try within your power and strategy to build up their boldness, with this they would have a bold and intimidating boldness which can defend bullying.

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Work on their Charisma

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It is said they way you behave is more or less the way you would be addressed. If you train their charisma, teaching them how to walk with an exceptional gait, which would make these bullies' feel intimidated by the way they look. This has a role to play in wading off the bully.

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Education & Enlightenment

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Teach these kids ways to identify when someone tries to bully them, teach them ways of standing up to bully the proper education and enlightenment would make kids not to fall victims to bullying of any sort of manner.

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Teach them Body Language

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Teach these kids how to study body language, emotions and know when they step beyond their boundaries. It's important that they know how to look confident. If they have a great body language perception they can know when someone wants to start the physical bullying and seek ways to escape the bully successfully. Perhaps they would escape the act of bully more often than not.

sourcebullying remains a torture to the soul

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"Give your opinion on how to overcome bullying in form of physical, verbal or through cyber bullying"

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There are a couple of ways to overcome bullying in the world today, these are my thoughts subject to constructive criticism too.

•Respectful Approach:
The more respectful and good mannered a person is to people around him, the higher the chances of such individual escaping bully. Respect is said to be reciprocal and if you respect alot the favor would definitely be returned to you on a platter.

•Diplomacy & Fair play:
In situations where you are verbally bullied, there are few words and sentences u could throw out that could throw out that could cause the bully have a rethink. It's not easy to avoid bully but using diplomatic approaches could cause the bully to change his ways.

•Minding your business:
If you could develop the intuitive ability of minding your business, it loses chances of you reducing the rate of bullying. If and only if you could stay at home and stop telling Mrs. Jones how much weight she added in the last few weeks or if you could only say thank you after eating a plate of rice at the Johnsons' without demanding for extra maybe just maybe the bullying could stop. It definitely starts and ends with you!

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