SEC-S15W2 | Beware of Bullying
Hello and welcome to my blog, but you all are doing really great. It's good to be joining in this engagement challenge, bullying is one thing that each and everyone of us have experienced in our life, it might be in school, online or other ways, I know that bullying really breaks anyone who falls victim of it, but in other way round there are ways by which you can discipline those who are found of bullying others.
Yes, I have received bullying in my life, it was during my secondary school and it really broke me down for a long time before it stopped, it was on my first day in school, so I am not good in making friends because I don't really interact to everyone.
But these group of boys always come to me and want me to be around there group but I didn't like the way they treat others, so after so many attempts from them I refused to join their group, after some time they started attacking me in so many ways, my books were stolen and I was disgraced in front of the whole school.
These things kept on happening untill I couldn't handle it, I seek for advice from so many people but at some point I wanted to handle the matter by going into a fight with them, but I was advised to reach out to the school management, thanks to the almighty that they were punished.
There are so many ways by which we can keep our children away from bully or mean people, some of the ways are:
We should always teach out children how to become confident and calm during the times they find themselves with bad or mean people, we know that crying or trying to go into a fight worse the case, you need to be calm and leave there at any point
If possible teach your kid how to defend his or her self whenever they try to beat the hell out of them, teach the kid how to defend themself when it comes to fight
Whenever you notice that your child is been bullied, make a serious entry to the school management, ask them to warn those kids that are bullying your child and reach out to their parent.
There are so many ways by which we can go against bullying and some of them are:
1:Stand up for yourself: The people who bully you might be because of the way you look or how you do things, so the best thing you need to do in this situation is to talk to them by saying that you like yourself the way you are, you need to be bold and not always been scared whenever they try to bully you.
2.Ignore: Always learn to ignore those that bully you, make sure they never see a reason to talk or chat with you, whenever you see them coming in thesame direction as you are,just walk straight away and don't say a single word to them.
3. Tell someone: This is the best way to overcome bullying they might threaten you in so many ways to keep quite, but all you need to do is always tell people that take care of you, with these way bullying can be handled.
Thank you all for reading through my post, I will like to invite @bossj23, @saintkelvin17, @richy20 to participate in this contest.
Es muy difícil para un niño sufrir el bullying en las escuela, realmente deja huellas para toda la vida y que en aquel momento acabó con tu autoestima. Las razones siempre son absurdas. Siempre hay un punto donde hay que enfrentarlos, tal como hiciste buscaste ayuda de la autoridad de la escuela.
Tuviste suerte de que resolvieron castigarlos porque casi siempre se hacen oidos sordos.
Esa experiencia te fortaleció porque ahora puedes proteger mejor a tus hijos y evitarles pasar por esos amargos momentos.
Gracias por compartir, saludos y éxitos.
I'm glad to read about your perspective on bullying. Most of us suffered thesame fate as you. We were bullied during our school days and because we are young and naive we couldn't defend ourselves. There should be severe punishment for bullies and with that other will learn to treat people with more empathy.
Thanks for reading through my post, truely does who bully others should not be left like that, they should be punished.
Exactly
hey @chukwu10 I appreciate your openness in sharing your personal experience with bullying. Its commendable how you sought advice and chose a peaceful resolution by involving the school management. Your advice on equipping children with confidence calmness and self-defense skills is valuable. Taking a proactive approach such as reaching out to the school management when noticing bullying, is crucial in creating a safer environment for everyone. Your tips on standing up for oneself ignoring negativity and seeking support are practical and empowering. your contributing to the discussion on overcoming bullying with insightful suggestions....
Wow, this shows that you really went through my post, most times we don't need to do everything by ourself, we need to reach out to others for help.
Greetings, you witnessed a horrible incident happen to yourself in high school. Such incidents really break us mentally. Let them be punished in the end. You have given very good advice, I also feel that I need to build up my confidence to overcome such situations. Good luck to you.
Yeah, they should be punished at last.
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Tak pernah ada hal bagus yang dihasilkan dari bully. Jadi sudah sepantasnya kita untuk menolak tindak bully dalam bentuk apapun. Sukses selalu temanku 👍👍
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Tindakan bullying memang sangat mengganggu dan membuat tindakan itu tersimpan di memori di ingatan kita dan membuat trauma,maka dari itu kita semua mengecam adanya tindakan bullying. Kita harus membekali anak kita tentang pemahaman dan cara mengatasi perundungan, di sini anda menjelaskan bagaimana membela dan mengatasi perundungan dengan baik.
Semoga sukses... 👏
Hello bro, I do understand how you feel about being bullied by people in school. Believe me I've been there and it is now something anyone should have to deal with. I am glad you took the advice not to fight with them and more grateful that the school management took the matter seriously. I wish you the best in the contest.
Hello friend
You really went through alot during your secondary school days as you shared here. It's a painful adventure for the bullies to steal your books and carry out all dubious activities, they tried to play smart but you reported to appropriate authorities that made sure they were brought to book. You shared that kids must be taught how to defend themselves which is about true. I enjoyed your entry and success in the challenge my dear friend