"Big desires and toughest challenges in 2024"

Everyone wants to be that big somebody, that man with thousands of dollars, that man that would have his own house, car and everything that makes a man independent. These desires are big desires because it's either you use means to achieve it or means uses you to get it.

What do I mean? Most popular big times boys we know today had backgrounds that were dirty, filled with thorns, thistles, suffering, struggles and pain. Now they have had their wishes after do many years of labour. No pain no Gain.

We desire to do things but most times we ended waving it as we don't have the means or aren't privileged enough. Some would say this year I must buy a plot of land but this year may pass without them achieving such. Factors beyond our control or sometimes with our control but ignorantly. My greatest desires are as shown below.

As a man and first male child in my family, a lot of responsibilities are laid on me to fulfill and most of them are mainly financial. I can recall playing a Facebook game one evening. The game is programmed to tell you what would call your this year. My first trial got me pregnancy. I was like, I can't answer this type of call this year. I tried again and the second Result I had was Baby Boy.

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I can't answer this kind of call this year because I'm not even interested in settling down now. Funny though. I thought of trying again the last time, the output was Marriage. It was then dawn on me that this is either fake or it's trying to program my life. I reject such programming this year.

My first desire this year is improving the quality of my family's life. We've been living happy lives since I was born into my family. We've been content with our needs and whatever wants would be backed by finances that comes later. Sometimes my parents find it difficult to fulfill their duties financially and they'll have to work extremely to get it done. So my greatest desire is to relieve them of having to cater for us in terms of fees, feeding and otherwise.

I want to achieve so this year fully although I started my independent journey last year. So improving the quality of my family's life is one of my priorities this year. I'll make sure they have the balanced life they wanted as they'll not have to undergo stressful times again which contributes to their aging badly.

• My second big desire is sponsor my siblings in a good tertiary institution if possible, take them out of this country so they won't pass through what I'm passing through already in my state's federal institution where you'll suffer to attend lectures, you'll go through severe stress to do everything majorly theoretical. This is not the type of education I seek though and I won't want them to pursue this type of education as well.

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My challenges this year may involve some financial imbalances especially when it comes to sponsoring my siblings in school outside the country. Although I've programmed myself to maximizing a lot of opportunities this year from crypto and steemit to attain that stability financially but since we're not in control of the future, we may not know what will come up in the way although we don't pray for such.

So these are the things I consider as difficulties in attaining my desires this year. Asides this and inability to attain financial stability from the mentioned platforms, I doubt my desires would work this year. These aren't things I need at the moment but as the contest put it are my desires.

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The most difficult of the two would be sponsoring my siblings education abroad. Why so? This is because there are proceedings to leaving the country talk more of furthering your education abroad. It's either you go there on scholarship and study in any university of your choice or you make such applications online with some documents that would be required. Finances would be needed to process a visa, accomodation if necessary and other things Involved..

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There's a saying we should start what we would be able to finish and finish what we started. I don't want to play circumstances of not being able to support them to the end. So everything lies on being financially stable.

In summary, everyone In life have wishes and desires. You can only get these desires if you have a good foundation, build it and then plan it well.
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