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in Steem Fashion&Style3 months ago (edited)

Hi guys. So how are you?

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So first of all I would like to thank dear @drhira in Steem Fashion&Style Community
About organizing such a valuable competition
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So this contest is your topic your contest. So I hope to share my thoughts with you about a human feeling that is common to everyone through this topic.

I hope you are safe and healthy. So today I thought of coming to you with a very beautiful post.

So guys, today I am talking about The True Love.

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Love is really a very strange feeling. Love is the most beautiful feeling that people can feel.
In other words, love is the opposite of hate.

It's really sad to say that many people today have started hating each other because they don't want someone else to live a happier life than themselves.

But we live in this world for a very short time. So if we can become an indelible character in everyone's mind in that short time, we are really a person who has won life. Because not everyone has the ability to be an indelible memory in another's heart. The world will be much more beautiful.

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Then everyone's face will be full of smiles.
Realizing that any sacrifice you can make for his or her happiness, not yours, is called love. He or she is someone else without you. If you are happy with someone, looking at them and being happy is the embodiment of true love.
For example, consider the love of a mother. She sacrifices her own happiness for the happiness of her children

Actually, I like little children the most in this world. Because they are like flowers. They are very lovely. My aunt also has a little baby. So she comes to see me every evening. He loves me very much. So do I. So let's love others. Theirs. Let's practice accepting love very humbly. Then we too will be a beautiful thought in everyone's mind.
Do you know if someone is happy by giving us the things we want without thinking about their own happiness? That person really loves us.

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Many people love and desire things that they can't get. So, they suffer all their lives for the things that they can't get. But that's not the way it should be. We should take care of the people we love like our heart, should be able to spend time with them.

So in my life, I felt the most love from my mother and my boyfriend.
I really love my boyfriend as well as my mother. They really don't think twice about sacrificing their own happiness to keep me happy. When my heart is hurt, these two are more sad than me. So everyone should have this kind of love. Many suffer because of true love. So according to my opinion, happiness and sadness are determined by the angle we look at something. So, like everywhere in love, if our desires and needs are very simple, we can live very happily and easily.

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So love is a really broad concept. So the way different people love varies according to the degree of closeness they have in our life and the relationship we have.
So among all these bonds, the strongest bond in this world is the bond between husband and wife. So this has also been found scientifically.

Another similar bond is the bond between parents and children.
So it is not like the love shown by a husband to his wife, the love between parents and children is different from that. Really, we all need to understand that.

After all, love is an emotional interpersonal relationship. That is, the kind affection a person shows to another person is a mixed sympathy. The word love comes from different angles and different interpretations. Here mainly affection between a woman and a man shows the mixed emotional bond. .

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Non-passionate emotional bonds such as close relatives and friends are also considered as love. In addition to such interpersonal relationships, the emotional bond between a person and another non-human being is also considered as love. In other cases, an emotional bond can also occur with something other than a non-human being.

Biologists argue that biologically, love is a biological impulse like hunger and thirst. This is especially common among animals belonging to the mammal group. Scientific research has confirmed that love is influenced by hormones produced in the body. The mother in the animal world. Progesterone is a hormone that is essential for sexual intercourse. This hormone is especially abundant in mammals.

Among interpersonal love, the most important place is the love between the opposite sex. Hormones are also involved in this. Professor Helen Fisher, an anthropologist, is the leading scientist among the scientists who have made the most scientific discoveries about gender love by engaging in scientific research on gender relations for 30 years. .She outlines the 3 stages of gender love.

01. passion
02. attraction
03. attachment

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Reasons why some people don't love

So, in addition to this, some people are seen not having romantic relationships. According to psychologists, it shows that there are various mental problems in many of these people. Various reasons affect the occurrence of such mental pressures. Sex members find it difficult to get close and understand them

Also, not having the company of friends of the opposite sex in their family as well as in school further improves this situation. Similarly, the restrictions imposed by the culture also affect this. In addition, there are also the negative motivations created by the people who socialize in the society towards romantic relationships. Also, the reduction of sociability in some people. That is why they are afraid to express their opinions to others.

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And some people have problems in choosing a partner because of their inferiority complex as well as because of their superiority complex. Some people are not motivated to love because of some unpleasant memories of the past. Factors such as childhood or adolescent molestation, loss of virginity, etc., can make women fall in love.

Also, some people are tempted to engage in homosexual behavior and this is the reason why they do not have romantic relationships. The reason for this is the presence of sexual disorders in some people and the misplaced fear they have about it.

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According to Buddhist philosophy, love is

According to Buddhism, love between men and women hinders Nirvana, the ultimate liberation. Worldly pleasures such as sex and love are described as temporary pleasures in Buddhism. Compassion is greater than love in Buddhism. Buddhism points out that more than attachments, renunciation is appropriate.

So love is not something you have to wait for, it is something you have to sacrifice
It is said that more than the person who loves himself dearly, the one who loves himself dearly wins the love
The most important thing in love is the trust between the two. Never lose it. It is very difficult to regain that lost trust

Even a flowing river has many rocks,Like love. But no matter how many obstacles a true love faces, you can move forward without hesitation
The other thing is that if you can tell the person you love directly what's on your mind without getting carried away, that's true love.

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When you love, don't love too much, if you make a small mistake, you can't bear it.
Love is a wonderful force. To create a man for love..? It can also kill a person. It takes less time to destroy a man than it takes to create one. Therefore, we should all be very careful when it comes to love. Love has sorrow as well as happiness

With the boiling love in the heart, that love. Fill a heart that waits with love and hope. Love will live forever
So I remind my steemit friends very lovingly that,
Love is something that depends on trust, where there is no trust, there is no love, as long as both have trust, that love will be beautiful. So always trust each other.

Feeling love is closer to the heart than words

Love is a pure feeling. . . Wait for that feeling to find you. . . Never go looking for love. . . Your love will find you someday
Love is like the ocean. . . Like waves in the ocean. . . There is no limit. . . No quantity. . . Sometimes love is pain. . . The heart feels that pain because we loved like an ocean like the waves of the ocean. . . There is no limit to the pain of love

So,If there is one thing in the world that is most difficult to understand, it is love
Love is only something we give, if we expect something in return, then that love is not true love
Love is like a cough, you can't hide it, no matter how much you try to hide it, others will understand it
Never fall in love with outward appearance, and if anyone thinks that money can make someone fall in love, that is a big lie.

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Love the heart, life and soul of the person you love, that love is eternal
Love is the only beautiful thought that cannot be expressed or understood

Sincere love is not about owning someone, it is about wanting to see the person you love happy. A person who loves sincerely can be happy seeing that person happy, whether they get the person they love or not.

If you love someone, never think only of making him yours
Where there is love, there is too much sadness, and the more sadness there is, the more love there is
Love is a necessary thing in life, but if you have too much love, it loses its value, so like everything else, keep a limit on love.

Love is a feeling, very sensitive, the most beautiful feeling. But many times, if greed and greed creep into that beautiful love, you have to cry until your eyes hurt.
Love never dies, always lives in the hearts of those who love
We need to love, those who love us... because maybe those we love may not love us

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If you feel lonely, when someone is gone, if you feel happily , when he is near, don't miss him...! Because it could be the love you are looking for
In life, love can never be planned. Not for a reason. But when love happens, it becomes the plan of your life. It is also the reason to live

So do you know that love is a word that we don't understand the value of until someone comes into our life and tells us its meaning
Every boyfriend and girlfriend fears one thing and that is the fear of losing the one they love.
The longest lasting love in the world is the love that was never owned.

So never pluck love like a flower...climb it like a mountain...don't confine that love to people's love only. I am talking about a humanist way of thinking that loves the world. Be someone who can love the leaf of the tree, the four-legged animal, everything.

Because I believe that the existence of that object depends on the love we show to that thing. Because if we love nature, we are motivated to protect nature. But if we don't love nature, we won't be motivated to protect it. Then we will be destroyed along with nature.

So, for the last time, I would like to say that Let's will try to be a beloved character in everyone's thoughts.

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So guys, I will stop here for today. So I will say goodbye for today, hoping to meet again with a beautiful post with a beautiful place.

So I kindly invite
@yola1
@paholags and
@marvinvelasquez to share your thoughts
.

So as always,I am very thankful to all of you who read this post of mine, to the owner of the you tube channel who got the information to refer to the steemit platform, and the everybody who encouraged me with words and gave votes and comments for my posts.

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Thanks everyone for reading my post

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A wonderful post that celebrates the beauty of love! Your words are filled with kindness, compassion, and wisdom. You're right, love is a choice and a feeling that can bring people together. Keep spreading love and positivity, and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.❤️

 3 months ago 

Thank you very much for giving value to my post. I wish you success in your future with all my heart.🙃🙃

You're welcome dear friend 🥰🤗

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