||Steemit Engagement Challenge S10/W3|| "Yes I believe marriages are made in heaven."
Introduce : I am @shahariar1 from #Bangladesh
Date :19/06/2023
Organized by Incredible India Community "Yes I believe marriages are made in heaven" I am enjoying this contest .I think those of us who are not married can get a very good idea of married life. And those who are married but the distance between them has increased. Maybe they will rekindle a close relationship after reading the content of the different contestants.
I would like to invite my friends to participate in this contest.
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Marriage is a sacred relationship. What the Almighty Allah has fixed from heaven. In my religion it is said that every man's life partner is made from a bone on his left side. And every man who comes into the world marries the woman who is made of his left side bone. Observing this hadith, it can be understood that the marriage took place in heaven.
Another hadith states that Allah has placed three things in His hands, 1, birth 2, death 3, marriage. By this hadith it is also understood that marriage is made in our heaven. That is, people cannot marry anyone they want. Whom to marry is predetermined.
Observing all these contents of the scriptures, it comes out that marriage is ordained from heaven. And marriage is with the appointed people on earth.
In answer to the first question, I said that marriage is ordained by heaven. One cannot marry anyone on his own will. For which the designated person must marry.
But yes the subconscious mind of every man and woman starts looking for his life partner from the time of adulthood. If he gets his life partner then it is not in the form of first love and then marriage.
And those who do not find their life partner. They have arranged marriages. But to me both marriages are very honorable.
But if I was asked personally how I want to marry, I would say I want to marry for love. Because I think that when it comes to love and marriage, each other's wishes and dislikes can be well known. Later it can be adapted very easily in married life.
But in case of arrange marriage, it takes several days to understand and adapt to each other. So I will give more importance to love marriage in these two marriages.
A great blessing of Allah Ta'ala is a happy married life. Allah Ta'ala has made our life partner so that people can live in peace on earth. And I think that man can have a happy married life if only one has found a wife of his choice. And get a wife and a happy married life with a responsible husband. Who is always responsible for himself and his family.
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The definition of a happy marriage is being like each other. Obedience to each other. Learning to forgive each other's faults. Just as we should share in each other's happiness, we should also share in each other's sorrows. When all these qualities are present in a married life, I consider that married life to be a happy married life.
Emotional distance and separation happen for various reasons. There are some special reasons for this. I am sharing the reasons one by one.
No 1.Cheating: Cheating on the part of the husband or wife forces the end of the marital life. Even for once in a lifetime. Cheating basically involves infidelity in marriage.
No 2. Relationship Deterioration: Disagreement and discord are normal in married life, but he cannot be allowed to stay at home for long. If it gets to the point where no one is talking to anyone then the problem gets complicated first with emotional distance then divorce.
No 3. Rude behavior: Road behavior is one of the biggest contributors to mental distance. Or insulting each other, insulting each other, abusing etc. These reasons can lead to divorce.
Also, disgust with marital life, boredom with life, and resentment spread is one of the reasons for divorce. Also, the most common cause of divorce today is drug addiction. We know that drug addiction weakens our brain. And good thoughts drift away from our heads. If there is indifference towards family life.
May Almighty Allah save every married life from separation. And I end my post by praying that you give them the opportunity to build a healthy, beautiful, blessed family.
Best regards,
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Good luck brother
I think marriage protects people from all kinds of immoral acts. Only marriage brings people to the right path. And through marriage, people get heavenly happiness.
Amigo comparto su opinión creo que en todas sus respuestas, yo tambien creo que el matrimonio viene desde el cielo, y que todos tenemos una pareja ya elegida por dios aca en la tierra, el matrimonio por conveniencia ya creo que ninguna cultura lo aplica o si lo hacen son pocas, el matrimonio debe ser por amor entre ambas parejas, así todo es mejor y lograran un matrimonio feliz en todos los aspectos, el matrimonio feliz debe tener una buena comunicaciones y respeto entre ambos, saber perdonar los errores, son muchos los factores que terminan una relación, bien sea el hacer trampa a la pareja con el engaño, el no ponerse de acuerdo en nada y el comportamiento grosero ente muchas otras causas, me gusto mucho leer tu publicación te deseo muchas suerte amigo
Marriage is not just a name for physical relationship. A marital relationship is declared to be a sacred relationship. The role of marital relationship in chachi formation is immense. Marriage means assuming the responsibility of a parent. Build yourself in a way that children can learn from. Marriage keeps people away from immorality as it makes them responsible. In marriage lies the bliss of heaven. It contains all goodness.
In Islam, it is said that if you are poor, then marry even if you are in debt. There is success in marriage.
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Hello dear, @shahariar1
This is why I love love marriages. With whom I have to spend the rest of my life. Before marrying her, let's know all the things about it. About life partner's love and affection etc. So that there is no hindrance in the happy life after marriage. But I also respect arranged marriages.
Thanks for invite me to join the contest..
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Goodluck n blessings
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Hola, un matrimonio por amor es lo ideal, es lindo amar y ser amado, sin embargo hay quienes contraen matrimonio porque ya estaba arreglado incluso antes de nacer y han sido felices, porque la convivencia los ha hecho amarse, pero no pasa todo el tiempo.
Encontrar a esa persona con la que compartiremos nuestra vida a veces no es fácil, pero el amor es un sentimiento hermoso de experimentar, cuando llega debemos mantenerlo en nuestra vida, alimentarlo con respeto, confianza, consideración y pasión.
You have a good knowledge about marriage
Wishing you best of luck