Steem engagement challenge-S10/W3| I do believe marriages are made in heaven.
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Greetings to all my dear friends of Incredible India Community
Today I am here to share my point of view about the topic mentioned this week Post Link
Before sharing my point of view, I would like to invite @josevas217, @ridwant, and @steemdoctor1 to participate in this challenge.
Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion. |
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Yes, I do, as I mentioned in the title. But my perspective is different, and what is that?
When we meet someone, and the bell rings inside the heart, butterflies often roam around our minds;
At that time, we called it the symbol of love.
Because love is an emotion that often knocks at the door of our hearts;
not in the door of our minds.
Most people believe that the almighty exists inside the heart, and when we listen to the above signs;
That means somehow the almighty sends the signal of acceptance.
But there are some exceptional cases too. Because often almighty allocate challenges to test our patience, and for that, when we go through some disaster in life;
Some imposters also join us and pretend to be pleasing wishers. They try to take advantage of our weaknesses;
so we must be cautious about them too. One proverb we often use:- All that glitters is not gold.
But then, as William Shakespeare said, love is blind; we often couldn't see the dark side during these periods.
Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why? |
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In the present situation of society, I would
go with the arranged marriage.
The reason:- Often during the period of love, we only highlighted;
the best part of ourselves and hide the dark side.
People meet each other for a couple of hours and show the concern that maximum people do not maintain after marriage.
I have seen the highest separation found in love marriages.
Because of the comparison of early and after-marriage behavior;
most of the time, misunderstanding creates.
But in the arranged marriage- Our parents, who have already gone through the experience of married life;
they apprehend, and adultness of the time, make the correct decisions.
Another part is a couple just starting to know each other;
so acceptance initiates from the beginning from both sides. There is no space for comparison.
The best option, let the parents choose a life partner, and after that, we can take our time to decide whether we will move or not after spending some time with that person.
But in the end, sometimes circumstances and occasionally destiny work in married life.
According to you, what is the definition of a happy married life? |
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M- Mutual
A- Acceptance
R- Respect
R- Responsibility
I- Independency
A- allegiance
G- Grant
E- Equivalency
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According to my perspective, the definition of happy married life depends on a few things;
and among them, some are repressed inside the word which I mentioned.
- Marriage means:- Mutual acceptance with respect for each other on both sides. Marriage denotes responsibility, but that shouldn't hamper the independence of both sides.
It is a commitment of trust that should maintain, or I would say;
perform equally.
Besides that, couples should get equal opportunity in every case of life;
bogarting nature often shatters a relationship.
Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations. |
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(My perspective- Various can differ) |
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- Breaking trust- I think these three are the main reason behind the increasing separation. Any relationship foremost build and depend on conviction;
It takes time to assemble but ought a fraction of a second to break.
- A lacking of patience level- Now, in this fast lifestyle, we all are involved in the rat race to earn more and more to live a comfortable life;
we often get exhausted, and the work pressure often influences our patience level.
- Not getting mutual respect- In my job career, I often noticed that few people apprehend the meaning of mutual respect.
Mutual respect doesn't belong to the designation and the amount of money a person earns.
It's a human right that each person deserves, so no matter whether the person is poor or rich, no matter the person achieving less or high;
Each person deserves equal and mutual respect.
When it comes to the relationship of a couple;
It also needs the same. Often I have noticed that housemakers do not get mutual respect because they do not have permission to go outside to earn.
The only source of earning can't be the parameter of respect.
Once we enlighten by our minds and hearts;
various issues will be solved automatically.
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Hello dear friend @sduttaskitchen
Thank you so much sor your presence and nice comment. Indeed you correctly said when people know each other before marriage their expectations become high, and that is the reason often misunderstanding happens.
The current era has interfered a lot with the culture and traditions of the world community, including the problem of arranged marriages by parents for their children's life companions. Our grandmothers also did this for their children, because they knew what was best for their son and daughter's life partner.
Your writing is very interesting to read, but I took some of the core writings from this point. Thanks for invite!
Thank you for your response. Time change a olt and the thought process of people too. I think our earlier generation was aware about the consequences of after marriage better than us.
My pleasure..!