Steem engagement challenge-S10/W3| I do believe marriages are made in heaven.

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Hello friends, I hope you are all well. I am also well because of the infinite mercy of God. Once again, I come to you to participate in this amazing topic of the third week of the Steemit Engagement Challenge. Through today's challenge, I will share with you about marriages are made in heaven.

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Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.

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Yes I believe marriages are made in heaven. God has already decided who will be our life partner. As a Muslim, I believe that God has created every human being in pairs and those who do not get married on earth are married in Heaven.

We often see that people get married even in the long distance, even people of one country get married to people of another country. And if marriage was in our hands, then we would not see people from one end of the world marrying people from another end. It means that God has predestined whom we will marry and we will find our life partner at his appointed time. So I think marriage is made in heaven.

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Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?

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A man has full right to choose his life partner. But in the case of arranged marriage, it is seen that marriage is given considering other factors such as family status and social status. On the other hand, in the case of love marriage, two people already have deep love which is more important for them to stay together for the rest of their lives. So I prefer Love Marriage the most.

In the case of love marriage, love is created between two people before marriage. By this they can understand each other in advance and they can plan their future life in advance. And in love marriage, each other's shortcomings are accepted in advance, as a result of which their life after marriage is happier.

If the person with whom we will spend our whole life is unknown to us, then it takes a long time to form our love bond with him which is not the case in love marriage. That does not mean that love is not created in arranged marriages. Of course, but in this case one has to depend on family or others while choosing a life partner and we cannot be sure about how our life partner will be after marriage. So I prefer love marriage.

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According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?

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According to me, a happy married life is made up of things like love, respect, mutual understanding, trust, supporting each other and giving the highest priority to the partner.

When you make time for your partner even in the midst of your busy schedule, your love for each other will deepen. After marriage, men especially become more responsible and forget to take care of their partners. This results in various complications between couples which leads to unhappy life.

Again, in the case of many women, it is seen that they cannot be satisfied with their husband's income and start judging their partner by coming to the words of others and this also creates complications in their relationship which leads to a breakdown at some point.

Therefore, I think that when two people stay by each other's side, support, limit their own needs, respect and love each other, then their married life brings endless happiness and joy, and the Creator always has blessings in such relationships.

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According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?

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There are many reasons for increasing emotional distance and separation. Many couples can solve their big problems very easily. On there other hand ,a small issue creates a big problem between many couple. But according to me there are some common problems that are seen in most of the couples which later creates separation between them.

First, men always want to dominate women. They think that women's job is only to clean the house, cook, move around according to the husband's orders and take care of the children etc. and they should not have any other hobbies. And when women complain about these things, it is often seen that men raise their hands on their buttocks. Finally, a separation is created in a relationship. And I consider those men who put their hands on women's bodies as cowards.

Again we see that many women start comparing their partner with others and disrespecting the husband. When one gets angry, the other has to keep quiet but many times it is seen that both are angry with each other and insult each other. Again many times they doubt their partner unnecessarily and cannot be patient the bad times of their husband which creates distance in the relationship. Because of these issues, emotional distance and separation are created in most of the relationships.

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