Steem Engagement Challenge-S10/W3| I do believe marriages are made in heaven.

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Assalamu Alaikum Steemit friends. Hope you all are well. I am also fine by the grace of Allah. So every engagement contest this week is awesome. So I am back today to participate in this wonderful engagement challenge organized by the Incredible India community. This challenge is called Do you believe marriages are made in heaven?. So I will discuss this topic in detail. So let's get started, stay with me.

Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.

I am a Muslim. My religion is Islam. So in my Islamic view it is ethical to believe. Each religion may have different beliefs. So Allah created all people. All our destiny is in Allah's hand. So I believe Allah has given us a beautiful life after death.

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We want to be married on earth. Allah has already decided this fate for us. Marriage relationship means starting life anew or starting a new chapter of life. Allah Ta'ala has decided that marriage is in heaven. According to his rules, we will get married in the afterlife. All Muslims of the world believe that all the rules of this world are created by Allah.

Marriage with injustice in life was ordained by Allah before his birth. This sentence reminds us of the life after death, which we know as paradise. We will be married in heaven. This sentence is meant for every man to have faith in the Creator and adapt to all situations in married life.

Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?

It can be said that differentiating between an arranged marriage and a love marriage is purely a matter of personal preference and perspective. Love is real in the world. These relationships dominate social and family decisions. So I like arranged marriages.

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I have a few reasons for liking arranged marriages. Here are some steps to take about life. I will not disrespect love marriage. It depends on one's personal preference. But arranged marriage is a principle of our society. If you want to fit in with everyone in every society, you have to arrange a marriage according to the family or according to the rules of the society. Arranged marriage in our society is an ancient cultural practice. It has been in practice for a long time.

Arranged marriages follow family rules and respect the cultural norms of the society. In arranged marriages, their child is found a life partner by the family. It falls within the responsibility of the family and the family plays an important role here. When an arranged marriage takes place it is treated as a lifetime guarantee, not a temporary marriage. Here people from both sides take security. So I chose this arranged marriage party.

According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?

It is important for two people to have the same mind in a happy married life. Happiness, satisfaction depends on personal opinion of people. To be happy in life a bond of relative destiny between two must be connected with love, relationship, intercourse and solving the problems of weekly life.

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So in general we can say that the definition of a happy married life is a complete and satisfying relationship between two spouses, forming a space of harmony and joy. Achieving a happy married life requires building strong bonds between each member of the relationship. For this two spouses should show complete trust, understanding, support and sympathy in each other.

In this world there is a delay between love, depth of relationship, merit of ideals, natural immigration and mixing in happy married life. Also, in order to enjoy a happy married life, your environment should be implemented and organized enough, so that you can spend time with each other and enjoy each other, only then will a happy married life be achieved.

Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.

Some of the reasons behind emotional distance and separation can be different. Many problems are faced in married life. Marriage life becomes happy when some problems are solved. Again, the problem that is not resolved can lead to separation due to emotional distance.

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However, there are several reasons for this which I have mentioned below.

• Family and Social Distance: When personal relationships in the family are low or relationships are low due to family personal problems, emotional distance can arise. Another familial factor is social distance. psychological distance increases when there is no relationship between the institutions of society and individuals.

• Physical Distance: When two people are not located or are physically apart, emotional distance can arise. For example, being in different parts of different countries can create emotional distance.

• Lack of time: Many a times there may be lack of time between the two due to activities, work, family busyness etc. Lack of time can cause the relationship to deteriorate and emotional distance to increase.

• Barriers to sex or love: When a couple has barriers to sex or love, such as sexually uncomfortable experiences, being hurt by love or the freedom to love may decrease. Emotional distance can then arise.

So from my point of view I mentioned some reasons behind the increase in emotional distance and separation. In fact, social and environmental factors can influence such factors.

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Conclusion

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So finally I will say that it is not possible to live alone in the world. One has to move forward in life in harmony with everyone, for this one has to face many problems. Socially and psychologically a lot of stress has to be dealt with to stay happy. If the love is genuine it is possible to deal with love or marriage. So I am very happy to share my personal discussion on married life in this contest. Hope you all like it.

So I am Inviting my lovely Steemian friends, @patjewell, @waterjoe, @malikusman1, @radjasalman, @inspiracion to Participate in this Competition.

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