Steemit Engagement Challenge S10/W3| Do you believe marriages are made in heaven?
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Marriage is a sacred relationship and not a game or an eye patch. A long marriage does not guarantee happiness, let alone a marriage that is only one year old. This greatly affects the mindset and actions of both. Mental and physical health is a good foundation for starting a relationship. Therefore some experts have observed how best to start a relationship (age, early health checks, consultations to the relationship between the two).
Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.
All human destiny has been determined even before he was born into this world. All good and bad destiny has been well recorded, including destiny in marriage. Moreover, marriage is a worship, a sacred bond that has high religious value.
I believe that something good will end well and marriage that is destined by God for anyone will be far from temptation or temptation that comes not to destroy marriage but to strengthen it. Love, tolerance, cooperation, mutual openness, yielding and also trust will make it strong. All these good things I believe come from heaven. All couples only hope that their marriage is once in a lifetime and this is a ticket for them to go to heaven, because marriage itself is an earthly paradise which will be a true picture of heaven's marriage in the afterlife.
Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? why?
Of course a marriage full of love and affection. To be honest, I didn't have any relationship with my husband before we got married and we first met face to face at my house when he proposed to me and we had the courage to make the decision to commit together in living a married life. For me, first sight can also make a "premeditated love", and this is where God has opened the pages of my marriage destiny.
I can't say that arranged marriages are better or planned ones are better because I saw some of the facts of marriage before my eyes. Look, the tradition of our parents in the past, most of them were arranged and many of them survived, whereas we see today that many love plans were planned but failed in a short time.
I agree more if marriage is togetherness, Both are happy, both are sad, Both support and love and care for each other, it doesn't need to be luxurious because it doesn't guarantee happiness, but we should be grateful to our respective partners because every human being has its drawbacks as well as its advantages.
According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?
Building a harmonious household is everyone's dream, especially for newly married couples. A sakinah and peaceful family is the most valuable and main capital in fostering that life. In addition, taking a joint attitude in solving problems, and having long-term programs in various matters both for the future of children and for the future.
Mutual love and affection between the two sides. The wife is obedient and loyal to her husband and gives good attention and vice versa, solving problems must be resolved with understanding and tolerance, and taking care of each other's worship to strengthen faith and piety and most importantly Nothing is perfect, so forgiving each other will make the household more harmonious . Try to always fall in love with your partner.
Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.
Some of the reasons behind increasing mental distance and separation are actually not because of one party only, but because the two rarely communicate. Yes, communication in the household is very important and is the main capital. Especially now that everything can be done and monitored via the internet.
Lack of openness, trust can also erode this marriage relationship. Or it could be because of age, financial reasons, or fear of being taken over by others, some people tend to be in a hurry when deciding to get married. In fact, many admit that actually from the start they have felt that there is a problem between them and their partners. But they think that all of that will be finished too later after marriage.
Until here, my participation in the Steemit Engagement Challenge S10W3 at Incredible India Community.
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Hola amiga, excelente tu entrada, el amor es un acto sagrado que deberia tomarse muy enserio, no es un juego, además en el camino hacia el cielo, el diseño de Dios es la familia, debemos cuidar lo que ÉL nos ha encomendado.
Cuando dices que no sabes si es mejor el matrimonio arreglado o el amoroso, porque en tus antepasados has visto parejas que sobreviven a través de muchos años, eso da testimonio de que cada caso es totalmente diferente. Por eso todo depende del compromiso, amor, respeto, comunicación y apoyo que pueda existir de ambas partes.
La esposa debe sujetarse a su esposo y el esposo debe tratar con respeto y delicadeza a su esposa, así como si fuera un vaso de vidrio que si lo manipulas mal se puede romper.
La meta de casarse es llegar hasta el final unidos y tratar de hacer las cosas lo mejor posible.
Muy bonita tu entrada, deseo que tengas éxito en el concurso. Saludos cordiales...
Your post is very well presented. You said it right,
In fact, we have to accept it and value the relationship. So good luck to you in the contest.
Tengo gusto leerte también comparto el criterio de que el matrimonio no garantiza una felicidad y muchos creen eso y por eso es que resultan decepcionados y ciertamente cuando algo está destinado por Dios tiene carácter desagrado y en consecuencia existe en el cielo así como la tierra te deseo éxitos y bendiciones.
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