Steemit Engagement Challenge S10/W3| Do you believe marriages are made in heaven?
Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.
Yes i do believe who is better for us its just God knows and he always plan for us our matching. sometimes we find our partners late but its all up to God . we all listened since our childhood couple are made in heaven if we choose someone for our self in this world it is also from God. because God has thought us the difference between good and bad he knows who is for better and who we will marry its not our hand its all written from GOD. if we like someone here and if we start loving someone so if we dont get that its all already written in heaven . we think sometimes he or she or whatever the person is not deserves us or im not deserving for them.
Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love ?
I prefer arrange marriage because if you do love with someone ,sometimes its not working i mean to see lots of people against you and never allow to do it love is beautiful and i know people who did love marriage and they happy but when ever they are in trouble they they cant tell to their parents because they were not agree with their marriage but when you did arrange marriage everyone involve like you have your elders to sort out things but some times arrange marriage also not work. most of the time families never allow their children for love marriage thats why they did love marriage against their parents and when their marriage dont work they survive alone thtas by arrange m,arriage is better its totaaly my point of view i really do believe in love but after married.
According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?
compatibility is very important in every marriage and understanding , when the couple understand each other they always live happily and the little things never effect them but when you dont understand your partner and fight for little things they cant live happily. support your partner in every matter your partner deserve your trust and respect. respect also very important element for happy marriage life .
Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.
some couple is too much depend on other's opinion they always take advice from others its not bad thing but too much involvement of other in the end become the reason of their fights and their separation you both should be enough for each other do not give space to other in your married life specially and respect is important when your partner give you respect in front of others people also give respect most of the time compatibility is less between the couple which i guess reason behind their separations . nowdays i think money is a reason because inflation is high all arround the world most of people are job less and they fight for money and sometimes woman do jobs and want to support her husband but the ego of man become and they fight and separate their ways. These are some reasons according to me.
conclusion
marriage is beautiful both have their importants its all up tomus how we manage our things and understand our partner give respect and support is very necessary in every marriage dont let down your partner infront of others . Thats how marriage will go far and couple can live happily.
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You have written a wonderful article. I agree with every one of your points. The decision of marriage is made in heaven and it all happens by the order of Allah. Both husband and wife should value each other's words and should not be so dependent on others to decide what they husband and wife should do, All the best to you my dear 💞💞
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I completely agree with your thoughts, same is mine that i prefer arrange marriage and in my opinion love marriges didn't stay more time because the decision took by your parents is the best decision of your life and you cannot decide what is good for you in that age, I'm telling what i experience.
Wish you luck 😍 I'm not active here because of bad health.
Thank you so much for your precious comment ✨ Aww what happened to you may Allah give you healthy recovery and Get well soon ❤️
Ameen, thanks for prayers, i caught chicken pox and many more things going in life.