Hello dear friends,

I am very happy to participate in this SEC S10 W -3 contest: https://steemit.com/hive-120823/@meraindia/steemit-engagement-challenge-s10-w3-or-do-you-believe-marriages-are-made-in-heaven I wrote a lot about it because it was the contest's topic, and I'm eager to write more about it.

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I do believe marriages are made in heaven.

Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.

Marriages are truly made in heaven. Whether it's a marriage arranged by elders or a love marriage that we decide for ourselves, it's a wonder and a miracle that a suitable life partner can be found for us.

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My opinion is if both get married and shower love on each other then it is heaven or hell It is only up to the woman to make married life heaven and hell, if she thinks it is heaven and if she hates it, it is hell.

Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?

I prefer arranged, because marriage brings happines to the whole families and their relatives, reflects our cuture and tredition, there were many enevts organise to make people happy such as, rituals, formalities, feasts, parties gettogethers, introductions etc. We could know and meet our entite relatives and friends only on arranged marrieges.

My marriege was arranged and also love, because both of our parents introduced us, started alliance seeking formalities and never decided untill 6 months , and almost forgot about it, My husband and I got chance to talk via phone , fall in love and decided to get married after a very short meeting. The wedding also took place in the same year of the meeting. He then followed him to Gujarat which is almost 2000 km far away from my home town. I think it was a very brave decision. The reason I had faith in him to carry it out!

According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?

A happy married life is like a policy of live and let live, it is about recognizing the two wonderful energies of man and woman as complementing each other and ensuring social progress through this complementarity.

Just like us, they should know that they will have family ties, circle of friends and plans for the future. Their personal freedom should not be interfered with. Even though they are very close, some events in their life, some preferences are kept to themselves and they don't want our interference there. We should behave civilly in it

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Both have the responsibility to make life enjoyable, but I believe that women have greater responsibility because I have witnessed situations where families struggle in the man's absence.

Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.

Even grown in the same household, taste preferences vary. Give them freedom to cook and eat what they like.

Everyone has had a tough economic period in their life. You will have to search for sympathy by thinking that you have found someone to listen to your lament, and if you are mocked at that time, you will be heartbroken. At that time it is very important to stay together and deal with the situation without running away from your partner.

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Frequent talking about the pride of the of birth family and mocking the relatives of the spouce family can cause a rift in the family.

Hunger, feelings and passion are common to both and it is essential and veru natual, that both of them share it and avoid any rifts in the relationship.

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