SEC17/W3|Experiences come with age or circumstances!
Hey everyone
I am just 14 but I have already been through a lot. You know how adults always say "You'll understand when you're older" Well I think they are only partly right. I believe that growing up is not just about getting older its about the stuff life throws at you.
Learning from What Happens
Life been my best teacher so far. Whether its been tough times at school dealing with family stuff or just personal struggles each thing that happened has taught me something important. Like the time I failed big test and felt like the world was ending. It taught me that setbacks happen but I can bounce back. Or when my parents went through a rough patch in their Marriage. It taught me that relationships take work even when things get tough.
What Maturity Really Means
To me being grown up is not just about how old you are. Its about how you handle things. Its about bouncing back when things get rough understanding other people feelings and learning from everything that happens even if its hard. Its about being able to put yourself in someone else shoes and see things from their perspective.
When Life Gives you tough times ...
I have had some pretty tough times. Sometimes out of nowhere life throws something big at you. Like when my family went through really rough patch or when I had to stand up for myself at school. Those moments made me dig deep and find strength I did not know I had. They taught me that I am capable of handling more than I thought and that I have voice that deserves to be heard.
Wisdom Knows No Age
I think everyone can learn from each other no matter how old they are. Sure older people have seen more stuff but us young folks we have got fresh ideas and a different way of looking at things. We can shake things up and make a difference too. I have have conversation with my grandparent where they have shared there life stories with me and I have been blown away by the things they have been through. But at the same time they have been curious about my perspective on things and they have told me that they have learned lot from me too.
Why Circumstances Matter
So back to the big question do experiences only come with age Nope not in my book. Experiences come from what happens to you whether you are ready for them or not. Its not about waiting for years to pass it about making the most of every twist and turn life throws at you. Its about being open to new experiences learning from your mistakes and growing as a person. Life like a rollercoaster right? We are all just along for the ride learning as we go. So lets embrace it learn from it and grow together.
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Oh yeah, failing a test can feel like the end of the world, can't it? I remember once when I didn't do well on an important exam, I felt so disappointed in myself. But you know what? It taught me that failure is just a part of life, and it's all about how you pick yourself up and keep going. So, I totally get where you're coming from on this one.
You're absolutely right about life throwing unexpected curveballs at us. It's like one time when I least expected it, my car broke down in the middle of nowhere, and I had no idea what to do. It was definitely a tough moment, but it taught me to stay calm under pressure and figure things out one step at a time. So yeah, life can be tough, but it's also full of opportunities to grow stronger.
I couldn't agree more with this statement. You know, it's like when I visited my grandparents and shared stories with them about my adventures, they were so interested in hearing about my experiences. And in return, they shared their own wisdom and life lessons with me. It was a beautiful exchange of knowledge and understanding, showing that age really is just a number when it comes to learning from each other.
All the best
Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. It's comforting to know that others have faced similar challenges and have come out stronger on the other side.
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আপনার সাথে আমিও একমত যে ,ম্যাচিউরিটি মানে শুধুমাত্র আমাদের বয়স বাড়া না। অন্যের অনুভুতিটাকে বুঝতে পারা এবং সেই অনুযায়ী পুরো পরিস্থিতিটাকে নিয়ন্ত্রণ করা।
আমরা শুধুমাত্র বয়স বাড়লেই যে সব কিছু জেনে যাই এমন না। জীবনের বিভিন্ন পরিস্থিতি আমাদেরকে বিভিন্নভাবে শিক্ষা দিয়ে থাকে, যা আমরা কোনো বই পরে সবসময় জানতে পারবো না।
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I think everyone can learn from each other no matter how old they are. Sure older people have seen more stuff but us young folks we have got fresh ideas and a different way of looking at things.
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Absolutely, you've hit the nail on the head! It's the blend of wisdom from experience and the fresh perspectives of youth that make for such a dynamic exchange of ideas and learning.
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I hope you are well bro. It was very nice to read your post and indeed you have given a lot of interesting information in it about maturity. As age increases, the maturity of a person also increases. Time is the greatest teacher. It is the experience that teaches us and the other side of it is our society. It teaches us what to do. How to walk, what to do, we know from the behavior of people, but these things are not given to us from childhood, they are gradually born in us and become part of our experience, which is maturity. Another name is as we grow older, maturity and maturity will become stronger in us, maturity will come, we will be steadfast and strong in our decision.
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Thank you for your thoughtful reflection on maturity. You've highlighted a profound truth time indeed serves as a formidable teacher enriching us with experiences that shape our understanding of the world.
Truth be told, according to you experience comes from what happens to us either we are ready or not. I wish you the very best in this Contest. And once again, sorry for the circumstances and the Challenges you had to go through growing up. Be strong ok.💪
Thank you so much for your kind words and understanding. You're absolutely right, experience often comes knocking on our door whether we are prepared for it or not.
Your post on life and maturity at such a young age are truly remarkable. It's inspiring to see how you've embraced the challenges your faced and used them as opportunities for growth and learning. Your perspective on maturity being more about how you handle situations rather than just age is insightful and wise beyond your years. Keep embracing life's ups and downs and continue sharing your experiences and wisdom with others. You have a lot to offer and your openness to learning from both older generations and your peers is admirable. Keep shining brightly..
Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words and encouragement. It means a lot to me to hear that my perspective resonates with you.
Halo temanku, saya rasa kita memiliki pandangan yang sama. Dewasa bukan soal umur, tapi tentang cara kita mengatasi situasi. Ini soal bangkit saat ada masalah, memahami perasaan orang lain, dan belajar dari segala hal, bahkan yang sulit. Juga, penting buat bisa melihat dari sudut pandang orang lain dan mencoba memahami posisi mereka. Postingan yang hebat temanku 👍
Hello, my friend! I believe we share the same perspective. Being mature isn't about age but how we handle situations.