Steem engagement challenge-S10/W3| I do believe marriages are made in heaven.

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Hi esteemed members of incredible India hope you are doing great I am also good with the grace of Allah almighty today I am going to participate another wonderful contest organised by wonderful community hence the topic is really incredible i do believe marriages are made in heaven I really love it and here is my post.

Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.

Yeah I believe marriage are made in a heaven as a Muslim I have a strong believe on it as it is mentioned in Holy Quran that the pairs are created by Allah almighty and our destiny is pre decided before our birth.

So there is no nothing suspicious regarding the marriage is heaven. But still the opinion may very because people still very curious about the marriages and the always try to find a suitable couple for themselves and looked worried but soulmates, i just smile on them and say that don't worry its decided by Allah almighty and our Soulmate is must present in this world and we meet him very soon.

Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?

This question is really fantastic although I did love marriage but now i have strong believe that arrange marriages are much better than love marriages because we have less expectations and there is a strong relationship founding in arrange marriages as compared to love marriages.

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In my final conclusion I found that in love marriage had more expectations that why there is a chance of more separation and arranged married people seemed more happy and blessed in their life.

According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?

In my opinion happy married life is that in which both partner are happy and ready to sacrifice for one another and has the great contentment in their life and of course the one of the major factor is respect for one another and ready to stand for wife at any situation in their life.

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I called such a life to happy married life otherwise there is no use of life in which the husband is not ready to stand with wife in the time of stress, such married life has no happiness at all because the both partner are not ready to understand each other.

Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.

There are the different reasons which may cause the mental stress and separation in married life geyser as follows.

• The one of the major factor which is responsible for mental stress and separation is compromise is both the partner are not ready to do compromise and that's why it leads to the mental stress and finally divorce become common in the society.

• The Other factor which is responsible for the divorce and the stress is the respected mostly people are not ready to do respect for each other and ultimately it leads to the and distance and cause of separation finally

• Joint family culture is also one of the biggest reason of divorce in my society where the daughter-in-law is all time is under pressure of in-laws and who thought that and daughter-in-law has no right and she is only I maid in home this is also another cause of divorce and mental strength in people especially in Pakistan.

• love marriage is also another reason of mental stress in modern society because we have more expectations from one another and when we failed in, it leads to the anxiety and become one of the main reason of separation in married life.

I would like to invite my dear friends @uzma4882, @m-fdo and @suboohi to take part in the contest.