Steem Engagement Challenge-S10/W3| I Do Not Believe Marriages Are Made In Heaven
It is said and believed that a marriage or relationship that is created in heaven is one filled with happiness and success. But yet I don't believe they are made in heaven but rather Heavens may supply the start by opening the portal, but then it solemnly depends on how partners take their relationship forward.
Hence some good number of people face series of problems in marriage or after marriage, it tends to be really questionable to why heavens will plan out such negative implement in a life of an individual all in the name of heavenly marriage. This thought abd persuasion of ‘marriages are made in heaven’ are more likely to people who are not married yet (the singles).
Judging on the above facts, it could be said that, it doesn't really matter if marriages are made heavenly made or not. It might actually turn out to be true but then it's not something we should know if r emphasis our thinking faculty on. I believe that, if you like someone and the person reciprocates too, I think that should be quite enough for a relationship to be awesome, blossom and wonderfully made. Do we really need the heaven's stamp to judge and approve our relationship? For I believe we marry and date for the sake of love we share.
I prefer 'LOVE' . I kinda badly judge the arranged and destest the arranged kind of marriage ever since my uncles tried to enforce that on me. On my journey to dating the guy, we notice that it wouldn't work out anyway but then we kept it calm like 'We are doing great and fine' until everything bursted out that it wasn't working and could never work out.
Although it works for some group of people but I prefer the love that I naturally found with my man order than arranged. I don't condemn arranged marriage but finding a true love is better so that even if there's issues raising in the home, you will know how to solve it, and not bringing it to the person that arranged the marriage for you both or keep on laying complaints of regret.
A Happy Marriage can be defined as couples who aim at workeing extremely hard to keep the happiness of their home and themselves intact. I don't really believe there's such thing as secret to a happy marriage but then there are some simple rules that guides a successful marital life which is understanding, care and devotion, this helps to keep the two people committed to themselves.
Marriages also take work, much commitment, and love, but then respect is also needed to be truly happy and have a successful home. “For you to also Achieve A successful marriage you must learn how to keep falling in love many times with that same person.
There is one thing in Marriage, some people might tolerate while some other will be so quick to let you go as you have given them enough reason for them to sign a divorce paper on distant themselves from you. Below I will list out 10 reasons why this shit keeps in happening.
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Lack of Commitment.
Communication Problems.
Substance Abuse.
Incompatibility and Growing Apart.
Constant argument and nagging.
Extramarital Affairs.
Money disagreement.
Not being ready for marriage.
Domestic Abuse.
Falling out of love.
CONCLUSION
CONCLUSION
Am delighted to have shared you my thought on what I think on this contest topic. That marriage is sweet doesn't mean it's heavenly molded, it depends on how you shape it with your hands and by the grace of God. I appreciate you all for giving me a listening ear. Thank you all, I love you.
Regards,
@chiomzy810
Amiga comparto contigo el criterio también considero que el matrimonio obtiene la bendición del cielo pero su funcionalidad va a depender de las voluntades que tengan las paredes aquí en la tierra. Dios nos dio ese don de decidir y por ello tenemos la facultad de hacer que nuestro matrimonio funcione o no. Tal como lo dices muchas personas cuestionan su matrimonio y lo atribuyen a la bendición de los cielos y cuando esto no funciona tienden a renegar pensando que fue Dios quien dispuso que eso fuese así sin tomar en cuenta que todas las consecuencias de un matrimonio va a depender de las acciones que tomamos. Asumir un matrimonio es algo serio y por eso debemos pensar bien lo que vamos a hacer y tratar de que todo se dé en el marco del respeto y la consideración solo así va a funcionar un matrimonio y va a obtener a su vez la bendición de Dios desde los cielos.
Exactly, you have spoken the truth dear. Thank you for your contribution
Thank you for the invite.
About having an arranged marriage, I myself will not support it readily. Reason is that if things go south or there is a slight conflict - which every relationship experiences, of course - chances are that the decisions of the affected persons might be influenced by the third-party, and is not advisable for any relationship that desires stability.
Any relationship that wants to last longer enough shouldn't go for arranged marriage.