Steem engagement challenge-S10/W3| I do not believe marriages are made in heaven.
It is a wonderful opportunity to participate in this week engagement challenge and I appreciate the steemit team for this nice initiative.
This contest is a very interesting one and I am going to share my participation now.
Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.
Different individuals are open to their respective points of view as they have the right to own a different belief.
Personally I have a belief that we make our future, we decide what our destinies will be and they are not made in heaven.
I have this believe that humans have been given a free will to decide what they will do and which part of life they will work in, and that being the case we decide who we get married to and who remains as friends.
I don't think our marriages are pre-defined in heaven, we get to make such decisions ourselves.
Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?
Marriage should be a life changing decision and it is the act of choosing a life partner.
Personally, I don't believe in divorce so I feel before one should get married, all features Should be checked and one of them is love.
Marriage by arrangements is not bad but I don't think both parties will be comfortable with each other, love will be absent in the marriage and this is one factor that can pull down the marriage.
I prefer love marriage to an arranged marriage and this is because it is easier to overcome obstacles faced in the marriage if the love is strong, and one will enjoy his marriage.
According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?
From my point of view, a happy married life is when both couples are very comfortable and happy around each other.
They should be able to share their burdens in each other and help each other heal from pain.
They should be concerned about the financial and mental growth of each other, they should respect each other values and respect and love each other.
A happy married life should also mean a peaceful life
Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.
There are different reasons couples separate and seek for divorce and some of them are:
- CONFLICTING BELIEFS:
One reason couples separate in the long-run is usually because of conflicting beliefs.
Probably the Husband is a christain and the wife is a Muslim but they were blinded by love and couldn't see enough reason to settle such difference.
In the long run, this could bring issues in the marriage and lead to separation.
- LAZINESS:
Another factor that leads to separation of spouse is laziness of a partner.
Probably one is hard-working and the other is very lazy, this wouldn't be nice and could lead to divorce.
CONCLUSION
Marriage is a very beautiful experience if both gender takes enough time to get to know each other.
I appreciate @meraindia for organizing this contest.
দুটি মানুষ নিয়ে তাদের দাম্পত্য জীবন শুরু হয়। সেই দাম্পত্য জীবনে। ভালোবাসা ও সম্মান না থাকলে কখনো সে দাম্পত্য জীবন সুখী হয় না। এবং স্বামী স্ত্রীর মধ্যে আর্থিক ও মানসিক বুদ্ধি না থাকলে তারা কখনো সুখী হতে পারে না।
ধন্যবাদ জানাই আপনাকে এনগেজমেন্ট চ্যালেঞ্জে অংশগ্রহণ করে খুবই সুন্দর করে সাজিয়ে আমাদের মাঝে উপস্থাপনা করার জন্য।
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's true that people have different beliefs and opinions, and it's important to respect each other's viewpoints.
Hello dear, @awesononso