Engagement challenge-S10/W3| I do believe marriages are made in heaven.
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Hello steemian friends , I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. God bless you all. Today I am writing about a interesting topic which is all time my favorite "Do you believe marriages are made in heaven?" Thank you so much for the community Incredible India who share such an amazing contest with us. I hope you people like and enjoy my post.
Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion. |
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Yes, of course I agree that marriages are made in heaven because sometimes the person we want to marry doesn't happen due to some reason even after all the things are decided. Spending your whole life with someone you have never seen. Which has nothing to do with far away.
Those whom God has chosen for us, they meet each other through some medium or the other. No matter what they may be in appearance.
It is said in our place that no one can avoid the wedding night. Couples are created from above.
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I prefer arranged marriage because our parents choose our life partner for us. Because in arranged marriage our parents are involved in our happiness. His blessings, His will with which our new life begins. There is little chance of risk and deception in it. Seeing the family, the parents marry so that their children do not face any problem.
If you have any problem in arranged marriage, then you can openly keep your point in front of your parents, in front of the family, tell them that you are in some trouble. But in love marriage, you can tell your parents about your problems. Can't tell about because this marriage is against their will.
As a conclusion, I would say that in both arranged marriage or love marriage, whether it is a boy or a girl, both of them have to work very hard to make their marriage a happy relationship and family. Only then a marriage is called a happy marriage and a happy couple.
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We can measure a happy married life by many parameters. I would like to tell you on the basis of my personal experience that a happy married life can be made only when there is love, respect, equality in a relationship. One cannot even imagine a happy married life in a relationship where there is no love.
A lot of sacrifices have to be made for a marriage to reach a happy married life. Even if there is a small squabble, I believe that at the time when the squabble is happening, at that time a person will be silent. So the matter will not move forward. The same thing will cool down. But if in a quarrel, both the people will continue to accuse each other equally. Then that thing will also take the form of a serious problem.
In this way we can make our married life happy. Like or dislike each other, taking care of each other is very important for a happy life.
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The situation of mental distance and separation arises in any relationship when the love and respect in that relationship has ended. There can be many reasons for the situation of mental distance and separation like
Lack of love in a relationship
Insult in front of outsiders
Do not take out for a ride
Find fault with everything
Taunt everything
Put each other down
Not running on budget
Wasteful spending
Talking too much
Out of all these reasons, if any one reason is in your relationship. And you are not able to handle it wisely and with tolerance, then the situation of mental distance and separation comes in the relationship.
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You have nailed a happy marriage with 3 statements: love, respect, and equality in a relationship.
Without these three things, making a marriage a success is so much more difficult.
It is my point of view that arranged marriages often come without love, which means that you have to give it your all to make it work. In these marriages, love often comes later.
Good luck with the contest, and thank you for the invitation.
Of course, I agree with you that love happens much later in arranged marriage. And in maintaining this relationship, you have to spend your whole life.
In some relationship, people stay with each other just because of the children, what will happen to the children if some action is taken. Arrange marriage is just like this. Only the risk is less in this and both the families try their best to make their relationship beautiful.
Thank you very much for your lovely feedback.