You are doubly right, we use the word "art" very easily, sticking it to anything, that is a common use, referring to the skill and excellence with which you do something, (whatever it may be)

The other thing is that "there is an ART" in capital letters, which has been defined in many ways and forms throughout history, one of those ways is to define it based on what part of the creative act it focuses on:

• the inspiration of the artist
• the process of creating the work
• the intention of the artist
• the piece or work itself.
• the effect of the piece on the observer.
• the implicit relationship between the artist-piece-observer

In short, there are many ways to define art, which brings me to the last part of your comment, refusing to define it. 😕😵🥵
I think you have much more to share than a refusal.
Oh, is that art?

See you later.