Jealousy In Life

Amongst all human nature jealousy is one of them. Sometimes we don't want to be jealous but situations forces us to be jealous. No one loves jealous people and this is unexpected when someone jealous with your success or you.

In this blog I'll talk about it regarding my experiences and also about controlling jealousy the way I control it in me.

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As a human being it also natural that sometimes I find myself jealous too. And after sometime I realize that how could I do this or how could I think like this.

If your close people get to know that you are jealous with them, its hardly possible that they love or respect you so it means jealousy burn love and respect in a relationship.

Jealous people can't be happy and can't see other’s happiness and if I define this psychologically, its definitely a kind of disease and need treatment. So what would be the medicine of it? Doesn’t necessary every jealous person can be recover this bad human nature in a same way.

Sometimes love can heal or control the bad feeling of jealousy, it should be controlled or else it can burn out everything as jealous people can harm others when the jealousy cross all limits its turn into hate and jealous people can harm others in this stage of jealousy.

Once I was working at a office and my performance to work was good so I got paid salary earlier than usual. When my colleagues knew it they openly attacked me with their rough words and their words completely indicates that they were jealous. I didn’t reply back as I didn’t want that their jealousy turn to hate and thay get a chance to hit me again by saying rude words or something unexpected.

I've learned my lesson there. I had mistake that I share my success with almost everyone and that is not good always. Regarding my experiences I suggest you all also stop sharing success and achievement in social media too coz even your siblings and relatives can be jealous and its happened to me many times unexpectedly.

Choose the right person to share your good news or else you may have to suffer as jealous people hit badly because they don't want to see you happy and successful. So better being careful.

Jealousy ruin us inside out so I control it or heal this kind of nature with positive thoughts like I never compare my life with others and ask for mercy from Almighty Allah. I feel apology when I realize I felt jealous for a while. I try to be happy when I see others happy around me. I appreciate and congratulate and give hugs if possible when some share their good news. I try my best not to be jealous in life. You can try it too if you find it in you or realize your jealous feeling inside you.

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