There is a kind of ability, called when things do not dwell

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Everyone may be difficult and hesitant when making a choice. Choose what you want, usually limited by the reality of the conditions; but the second best, but also feel reluctant. So in the end, no matter how you choose, you feel it is wrong.

Some things are not absolutely right choice. If you are too tangled up, and you insist on forcing the so-called right answer, you will only put yourself in a dead end where it is difficult to choose.

Everyone's life is composed of a variety of unknown variables. Many times, we are tangled, in fact, more like escaping reality, avoiding pressure.

I was also a person who was quite tangled, nervous about things, repeatedly tangled, rash decisions, and quickly regret. Of course, for this reason also ate a lot of suffering.

In the past few years, with the increase of workplace experience, I began to realize more and more clearly: life is your own, others can only give advice, but can not make decisions for you. The more you are afraid to face, the more you will be tripped up by various difficulties.

As someone said, no matter how depressed and tangled or find excuses, want to solve the problem, and finally have to face. So, our biggest enemy, has always been ourselves. And all the entanglement, in the end, are also in trouble with themselves.

In the face of the unknown, delayed entanglement, only to achieve nothing; dare to face, in order to become more powerful. If you have a question, do your best to answer it with patience and persistence. Even if you still can't get what you want in the end, but as long as you do your best for it, I believe the ending will be open and without regret.

The same thing, many things, there is no standard answer, only certainty and persistence.