When girls say they broke up, do they really want to break up?

Why do you think girls tell you they broke up?

Girls in love, should everyone say how many times they broke up, right? But do they manage to break up every time?

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I have a friend who is usually docile like a little lamb and kind to everyone. With him, he always accommodates everyone's preferences. If a friend needs help, as long as he is within his means, he will try his best to help. Wherever I travel, I'll bring you all kinds of little gifts.

We have known each other for a long time and have never heard of a conflict between her and a friend, because she is a very easygoing girl.

But this is a girl who looks completely different when in love.

He has high demands on his girlfriend, so he is more prone to conflict. Whenever the fight was intense, she would say "break up".

The words spoken could never be recovered, so they hid themselves and were secretly sad, waiting for their boyfriend to coax.

We all feel that this friend is a little "aggressive" when in love. If you want to break up, break up happily, so you can break up and reconcile again and again, why bother?

That kind of girl often talks about breaking up. One day she really broke up, and she cried and cried in front of us after breaking up. We've never seen him like this before. Right now, we know that he never thought about breaking up.

In romance, there are always some girls who say something against their will, such as being unhappy, but not saying that they are happy; obviously cared to death, but didn't say they were all right; obviously never wanted to break up, but always talked about breakups.

Girls are generally very emotional, when they fall in love, most of them will fall more and more in love with the development of time together, therefore, I always thought that the term Rijiushengqing is actually more about women.

It's like chasing someone, if other people don't like you at all, the girl has a high chance of being touched and ends up agreeing with the relationship, but the guy won't.

So, under what circumstances do girls usually say they broke up?

1. When really disappointed with a boy

When he needs his girlfriend to be there, but has never been there, when he's in this relationship and can't see the future at all, he starts to get upset. Of course, the total disappointment is not directly due to the occurrence of a particular event, but the accumulation of many things. When the accumulation reaches a certain level, girls will be really disappointed in boys.

When girls are truly down with boys, even if they love again, they will choose to break up.

2. When you no longer have feelings for a boy

It's not that as long as two people are together, the relationship will build up over time. There are also completely opposite situations, when we are together, it's obviously sweet and sweet, but when we get along with each other and understand, those feelings will also pass.

When girls have no feelings for boys, there is no need to maintain this relationship, and of course they will break up.

3. Emotional outbursts and shortness of breath

Every partner needs to be more emotional, generally when fighting, it is easier to tell that they broke up.

If emotions build up to a certain level and cannot be resolved effectively, the separation will be revealed.

4. When you want the other to compromise for yourself and care more about yourself

This is the situation of the girl in the above story. In fact, they don't really want to break up in their hearts, but because the breakup can grab the other side's attention and let the boy know that he is very angry and sad. By talking about breaking up, let the boys pay more attention to themselves, and care more about themselves.

Girls like this are generally not confident, sometimes they take the initiative to say that they are breaking up, but are also afraid to give up first. This is a very troublesome type. The guy should give them a lot more attention and security, and they are sure to make really good girlfriends.