What qualities do you think a boy worthy of marriage should possess?

in LifeStyle3 years ago

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Have you ever thought about a problem? What kind of man should be married?

Marriage is a very wise thing for girls, after all, it's about a lifetime of happiness. Even though society has become more tolerant of divorce, everyone who is married wants to have a partner for life, and they don't want their marriage to be unhappy.

So, what kind of guy deserves to be married?

Good family condition? Have a car and a house? Still have a stable job? Handsome?

This is just an additional condition for measuring a person. Even though these external conditions are good for a boy, there is no point in refusing to treat you kindly.

Share a little story:

I have a friend who is a beautiful woman. Since childhood, there has been no shortage of pursuers. After all, everyone loves beauty. The conditions in her family are average, but her personality is very strong, and she hopes that she will always be the best among everyone around her.

Study hard at school, and work hard after work, hoping for good development. When it was time to get married, all the friends around him were already married, but he didn't know what to choose.

In fact, there was true love around her, which had been very kind to her over the years, and would always be the first to show up when she needed it, but her condition was average, and she couldn't get her eyes.

When she got married, her marriage was very grand, which helped her get quite a bit of face in front of her friends. The man's family was quite wealthy, but to be honest. In the eyes of her friends, she felt that the man's photo was quite good.

Of course, his marriage only lasted two years.

Even though the condition of the man's house was good, I didn't want to be progressive. My friend naturally belittled him and became the nagging "parent" of the family. When that man was with her parents, she was watched by her parents and she thought she could relax after marriage. His wife is in charge, and it gets even worse for him. When I was with this friend of mine, it was because he was handsome, but there were so many handsome girls. It didn't take long for the guy to have new goals outside.

A strong girl, how could she tolerate her cheating husband, so she took the initiative to end her less than two year marriage. At the time of divorce, the husband's family is very determined. Houses and cars are bought by men before marriage. She did not take anything but some daily necessities and some things herself before marriage.

What kind of boy is a girl worth entrusting her whole life with? Are the boys in the above stories worth it?

A boy who deserves to be married to a girl is useless just by looking at his condition. No matter how rich a boy is, he won't spend money on you, and you still won't get anything. Even if a boy has no money, he is willing to work hard for you. All of them are useful.

Generally speaking, boys who are fit to marry have the following five qualities, so you should refer to them more often.

To be responsible

Responsible boys can take on family responsibilities after marriage and know what to do and not to do. Sometimes love can't last a lifetime, but responsibility can.

Willing to work hard

The person you choose is not afraid of having no money, but is afraid of refusing to work hard. In modern society it is not difficult to make money, if you are willing to lose, there will be many opportunities to make money. A hardworking man, you may not look perfect right now, but it can make you see hope for the future.

Willing to pay for you

No matter how high-quality boys are, they are no different from passers-by if they aren't willing to pay for you. And boy is willing to pay for you, it really shows your importance in his heart.

gotcha

Marriage has to face many problems, and many problems to solve. Finding a boy who understands you will save you a lot of effort. Generally, boys who can understand you are willing to think from your point of view, which naturally reduces a lot of contradictions in the mix.

Gentle and kind

It is said that people who are gentle, kind, and caring are not basically bad people. After being together, I can be gentle and kind to you, under this pure nature, I can also have a pure heart, and naturally I can treat you well.

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