Sorry, although I married a man, I live in a house

Sarah's husband said that he would bring his in-laws and mother-in-law. When they lived together, Sarah was not happy.

Before getting married, I had agreed with my husband that I wanted to live in a world of two people and live alone. It's just been married for more than three years. Why do I have to live with my in-laws?

But the reasons given by the husbands are also very good, both have children and both have jobs. Mother-in-law comes to look after the child during the day and too many to come home at night. My house is also bigger and more comfortable. My parents really like it. Better stay together.

Sarah felt uncomfortable and whispered in her mouth, She had obviously been helping the child who had been watching her for more than half a year, and she didn't think it was an inconvenience. In addition, even though the mother-in-law does not help, the mother can also help the child without having to live together.

Even though it was a small whisper, Sarah's husband also heard it clearly, and immediately yelled at Sarah for being ungrateful, ungrateful, and her mother helping care for her for half a year, but she couldn't make her filial.

Sarah saw the attitude of her husband who was very firm. If she insisted on disagreeing, it would only result in more arguments between the two. She had no choice but to agree to move in with her in-laws.

When the in-laws move back in, it seems to bring back conflict and contention.

Sarah comes home after buying vegetables from the supermarket at night. Her mother-in-law knew that she would say Sarah would not live, and the vegetables in the vegetable market were cheaper; Sarah put a change of clothes in the washing machine, and her mother-in-law said Sarah didn't know how to save money. Two pieces of light clothing are hand washed to save water; Sarah likes to read in the living room at night, and for this reason, she also buys a beautiful floor lamp, but her mother-in-law turns off the light whenever she reads in Sarah's language, for fear that it will drain the electricity ...

Of course I used my own money to buy vegetables. Since living together, my in-laws have never spent a dime on living expenses; during the day, the mother-in-law would wash her father-in-law's clothes. -the law and her husband, leaving only Sarah's electricity bill. Even if I haven't handed it over once, would you feel depressed even if you used it for yourself?

Sarah couldn't help complaining to her husband, but he said he didn't make all the money. Obviously, both of them work at work, and her husband's salary is only $ 300 more than Sarah's, and she also pays $ 150 to her in-laws every month. Why is it that her husband is making a living on his own?

Then, after her mother-in-law turned off the light while Sarah was reading, Sarah and her mother-in-law said solemnly that the electricity bill was paid for herself, and she didn't care to turn on the light and read. .

This mother-in-law's words are exactly the same as her husband's, saying that family money is the result of her child's hard work, so she has to help him take care of it.

Later, the mother-in-law urged her son to tell Sarah that she would give her husband's salary card and pay card to his mother-in-law, who would take care of him in the future.

Sarah really couldn't stand living with her in-laws, so she suggested moving to the small house where her in-laws lived. Because their in-laws are like big houses, they live in big houses. home. My husband said his real house was for sale. Sarah immediately said it was better to sell. He only took the money to pay a down payment before buying a new home. Husband hesitated and couldn't explain clearly.

Sarah didn't know, so she took advantage to return to her mother's house once and tell her mother about the matter, and asked her mother to find the original deliveryman to inquire about her in-laws' house.

After asking that question, I realized that my in-laws and mother-in-law did not own a home.

Sarah and her husband met on a blind date. Although Sarah did not want to find good conditions, she also hoped that the man could have a home. When it comes to marriage, Sarah's family made a request. The man's family had to prepare the bridal suite. There was no need to add Sarah's name, but the young couple had to live alone. At that time, the husband's family also agreed.

After asking about this time, I discovered that my husband's house was just this house, and there was no extra money to buy a new house. Therefore, the first few things my husband talked about were all banned, all because it was getting married and wanting to live with his in-laws. The parents-in-law were afraid that their child could not find his wife, so they came up with an idea. They said they bought a small house, but in fact the in-laws moved into the house of an unemployed relative. , saying that the original house was prepared for boys. The wedding room.

Unexpectedly, the relative's family was eager to use the money and wanted to sell the house, only then did the in-laws and in-laws let their son reason with Sarah and move back.

After learning the truth, Sarah felt that she had been tricked.

I met my husband on a blind date and felt that they felt good for each other. They both reached the age for marriage, so they talked about getting married. But if I found out that my husband didn't have a car or even a house, he would definitely not agree to marry me.

After returning home, Sarah quarreled with her husband and family, saying that her husband was a fraudulent marriage. But her husband asked her, whether to marry a man or a house?

Sarah couldn't answer. She felt that even though she had married a man, home was her residence. He spent most of his life indoors. Before marriage, the condition is living alone. But her husband's family tricked her, but she shouldn't say things like marrying the house.

Sarah doesn't know how to choose, is this a divorce? Or continue to live with your in-laws and fight non-stop every day?