I thought that as long as I was patient enough, I could maintain the marriage for a lifetime

in LifeStyle3 years ago

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Some people say that marriage is a time of adventure, good or bad sometimes depends on luck, no matter how hard you work, as much as possible, you will definitely be wasted if you meet someone who is not cooperative.

Sarah didn't believe this statement, she thought that every woman chooses to marry out of love. Even though there are many tribulations in marriage, as long as you work hard on your own and tolerate each other in everything, there will be no obstacle that you cannot overcome.

She and her husband got married for love, and after getting married she also worked hard to be a good wife.

Before Sarah and her husband got married, they wanted to eat fruit. Her husband would walk several streets to buy the best and freshest and deliver her; accidentally cut her finger, and her husband couldn't wait to get Sarah to the hospital. I had colic during my monthly menstruation, and I would prepare brown sugar water early, and rub my hands to cover her stomach and relieve the pain.

But after marriage, all of this seemed to exist only in Sarah's memory, as if it were her own daydream. With marriage, the dream awakens, and the scene in the dream never appears again.

Sarah shared this with her friends, and all she had was a few complaints about her husband's change after marriage. Sarah thought, apparently this is what happened after marriage, as long as you endure it and get used to it.

Besides, as long as she treats her husband with all her heart, one day she will touch him and make him treat himself like before marriage.

Therefore, facing her husband's changes before and after, Sarah not only felt hopeless, but multiplied her love for him.

When my husband comes home from work every day, there is always food steaming on the table at home; someone would wash and cut the fruit after eating; clothes that will be worn the next day will always be ironed and hung first ...

After knowing the situation, the boyfriend even laughed and said that Sarah loved her husband as much as raising a son.

Not long after getting married, the mother-in-law came to meet the young couple from the countryside. When Sarah gave the gift she had prepared to her mother-in-law, instead of being satisfied with this daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law accused Sarah of spending money indiscriminately. When Sarah saw the gifts she'd picked up all afternoon thrown back into her hands, she felt that they were a little hot.

From then on, the mother-in-law began "checking" Sarah's house. There was dust in the corner, Sarah was not virtuous; the food did not suit my taste, Sarah was not virtuous; there are too many clothes in the wardrobe, Sarah is not virtuous ... Sarah is the daughter-in-law who is not virtuous in her mouth.

At night, Sarah couldn't help complaining to her husband, thinking that he would provide comfort, but she didn't expect him to say that she had thought so too, and hoped that Sarah could change according to what happened. said her mother-in-law.

Sarah feels wronged. She and her husband had to go to work during the day. After her husband came home, she didn't do anything. She had to wash clothes, cook, clean and so on. Sometimes, if he doesn't. well, that proves that he is not virtuous?

The complaint in her heart didn't make Sarah regret her marriage. Before getting married, Sarah's mother told her that if she wanted to live a good life, husband and wife shouldn't fight, but always endure it.

Soon after, Sarah became pregnant, but her life was not as described on the Internet, because she could be a daughter for ten months after she became pregnant. You still have to buy vegetables and cook, you still have to clean, you still have to wash your own clothes, you still have to look after your husband.

After one meal, Sarah felt such a pain in her waist that she told her husband that she wished she could clear the table and clear the dishes. Her husband didn't respond, so Sarah returned to the room and went to sleep. When she went to the kitchen to cook the next morning, what was on the table after dinner the night before, and what she is like now, her husband didn't clean up.

When Sarah finished washing the dishes silently, her husband came over to breakfast and asked why he wasn't cleaning. But her husband asked Sarah, why did she have to clean the dishes? To marry a wife means to do household chores!

Sarah's inner complaints turned to tears, she watched her bulging belly, dry her tears silently, and continued to make breakfast. It used to be patience for marriage, but now he has more reasons to be patient, son.

When Sarah was in the cage, right at the time of the fall harvest, her mother-in-law said that she couldn't come to take care of Sarah because she was busy with household chores. Sarah's mother was always in poor health, and Sarah's house was far away. She couldn't stand her mother going back and forth, so she didn't tell her mother-in-law wasn't coming.

Within a month, her husband even carried the baby a few times, and he never cooked hot food for Sarah.

After each meal with tears in her eyes, Sarah told herself to be more patient for the sake of her children.

I think that life is like this, patience can live a lifetime, as long as I don't care about my husband, I can give my child a complete home.

But the lipstick traces found during the laundry really ruined Sarah's dreams.

Sarah washed her clothes as usual, and showed no sign of her husband at dinner. She looked at her husband's cellphone for the first time when he was going to take a shower.

I still remember Sarah's birthday a few days ago. I expected her husband to surprise her from the morning, but she waited until the night before going to sleep and nothing. She couldn't help asking her husband, only to find that she didn't remember what day it was. On that day, Sarah only wished him a happy birthday after reminding him.

Sarah put down her cell phone and looked at her son who was still sullen in bed after falling asleep. He didn't know how to choose. Should she continue to endure it and keep the family, or give up the family and choose divorce?

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