I thought loneliness was terrible before, but now I find that loneliness is even more terrifying

The topic of "the status quo of the world's lonely deaths" has become the topic of the list. Everyone's anxiety about dying from loneliness is gradually increasing, especially many people in their 40s and 50s who have participated in "pre-death preparatory seminars" to discuss how to deal with their own death. The lonely death of tens of thousands of people each year is sure to stir the mind.

Alone, lived in a small house, faced a sudden illness, died quietly. After his death, until his body rotted away, nothing was found, nobody was contacted, nobody visited, nobody cared.

If loneliness was always thought of as terrible, then loneliness should be considered very terrible, right?

You may ask, what about their relatives? Where is their friend? Where is their lover

Such people generally live alone, are mostly elderly people, have no friends, have no love, and have little contact with family members.

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Loneliness is not bad, and sometimes we still need time to enjoy being lonely, but don't let loneliness become a regular part of your life. The occasional pleasure will give us time for quiet thought and mental relaxation, but long-term loneliness is bound to become lonely and sad.

Keep in touch with your family, call your parents during breaks, and send messages to your relatives. Excellent interpersonal interaction. Don't think that the person you contact the first time, the other person will think you have something to ask for, and don't appear to be. If you contact other people, you will feel that your life is cool. If you take the initiative, you will find that many people care about you.

Meet three or five friends. It's okay to drink tea, eat, shop, even if it's just sitting together and chatting, sharing interesting things in each other's life, or sharing concerns and seeing friends' suggestions, as often as possible. To deepen mutual friendship. Marriage needs management, love needs attention, and friendship also needs care and nurture. Even though true friends remain friends even though they haven't contacted them for a long time, they will not feel strange when they meet, but if they haven't contacted them for a long time, don't they miss many moving and smiling moments in their respective lives?

Home is our refuge from the wind, but we have been alone in the harbor for a long time, and we must also let our little boat sail out of the harbor to meet the sun and the waves.

Going out, visiting relatives and friends, meeting new friends, staying away from loneliness, how can you die alone?