To "conquer" a man firmly, the best way is not to please, but to do so.

One writer once wrote in her book: "A woman who wants to control a man is like a fearless man who wants to cross the Alps."

Whether it is men controlling women or women conquering men, the essential features are the same, namely competition and games between the opposite sex.

It is as if the two sides of chess are facing each other. I fight every step of the way, and you press every step, neither side will let anyone else. Because both camps have their respective goals.

What should women do if they want to conquer men?

Some women think that as long as a man touches himself, he is responsible for himself. If this is the idea, it proves that this woman is a bit simpler.

Some women believe that if they have a half son for a man after marriage, they believe that a man will be better for them.

If you meet a man who knows how to be grateful and has a conscience, then this view is valid. But if you meet someone who has no conscience, what should you do?

The last piece of women thinks that pleasing men and letting them know what they want is a good idea. Doing so is quite wishful thinking.

In fact, if you want to firmly beat a guy, the best way is often not to please him, please him, but to do it, which is more effective.

01. To conquer a man, start with his needs

In order to conquer a man, women naturally have these women's needs. In the same way, men also have their own unique needs.

To control a man firmly, the most effective way is to start right away with his needs.

The needs mentioned here can be roughly divided into two aspects, one is a physiological need, and the other is a psychological need.

Physiological needs, this is the initial goal of mutual union between the opposite sex. Psychological needs require material and spiritual satisfaction.

As with some men, if they really like to eat, start by grabbing their "belly."

As with some guys, if they really like to flirt, start by capturing their "love."

This approach is to firmly control their minds from meeting short-term needs, so that they can listen to you in certain aspects and become subordinate to you.

02. Conquer a man, cannot be obtained easily by him

Most women always make mistakes like that when they see a man, and it makes it easy for them to get them.

Whether it's easy to get physically or emotionally, it will greatly reduce your male curiosity and sense of respect.

Why this happened?

From the perspective of human psychology, the easier things are, the less he will value them. Because he didn't make his memory deep, no psychology was cherished.

There is a saying well, for the people and things of this world, what is not in stock is the best.

It can be said that if a woman wants to conquer a man, one of her most important prerequisites is to give him some hope which can be obtained, but which cannot be easily obtained by her.

In this case, they will have a strong affinity for you, and they will appreciate it even after they get you.

03. To beat a man, you must have the confidence to be juxtaposed

In the game of love, if a woman is to win the ultimate victory, she has to keep the balance of the game, and nothing is better than one.

Some women believe that to conquer a man, you have to beat them. Such thinking will only exacerbate the contradiction between the two sides.

You know, the relationship between the two parties is balanced, and the relationship between the two parties is not balanced, which one is the best? In fact, we all have our own answers.

But the best answer is the first. As long as both parties have equal strength and a balanced relationship, he will respect and love you.

Because in this world, whoever he was, he would appreciate the existence of people on his level. These people will become the objects they want to get past.

Therefore, to conquer a man, a woman does not have to always think of herself as a "vase", but must have the confidence to be "balanced" with a man.

Women who are confident are the most attractive.

04. To conquer humanity, we must know how to share joy and sorrow

As the saying goes: "You know pines and firs in the cold, and you see true love in trouble."

When winter comes, you will know which tree is an evergreen tree. When a person is in a certain difficulty, he will understand who his helper is.

In this world, there are many people who can be with you, many people who can share wealth and honor, but only a few people who can share difficulties.

Because things like suffering are like looking into a magic mirror, once it shines, no matter what kind of monster it is, there will be nowhere to hide.

In feeling, the truth is the same. This means that if you want to know who treats you sincerely, who treats you uncomfortably and well, you will find out after having a hard time with them.

If a woman wants to conquer a man, the best way to convince him is to share the difficulties with him, endure the wind and rain, and make the relationship stronger.

Being able to withstand the feeling of wind and rain like an indestructible shield, guarding both sides and guarding the two tomorrows.