Ten years from the age of 45 to 55 years is actually a high-risk period in life.

From a medical point of view, in the last ten years, many of us have actually reached the stage of "physical function" decline.

From the perspective of human psychology, these ten years are the ten most unhappy years in life. You have to face not only a lot of problems, but also a lot of psychological contradictions.

From the outside environment, in fact, humans have been under tremendous pressure for the past ten years. The pressure on you from the environment and the pressure from your family will become a burden beyond counting which will destroy you.

Therefore, many people on the Internet say emotionally: "When you reach fifty, one foot has fallen to the ground."

Some people think that this is too negative. In fact, he cannot be said to be negative, but true.

Positive things can only deceive themselves, but more negative things to reflect the real side of life.

It's like someone turning fifty. We have to admit that it is the pinnacle of life, and it can give people enough energy to do countless things.

However, this is also a dangerous period, if people have problems during this period, then the rest of their lives will definitely not be affected.

Why did the ancients emphasize that one must know destiny? Because if someone doesn't understand destiny, then that person will definitely be bothered by reality, and both body and spirit will suffer.

Abroad, some researchers have conducted such experiments, they target 100 middle-aged people in their 50s and then observe their living conditions.

After several years of observation, the researchers found that out of these 100 people, ten had died, and they died suddenly due to illness.

For many others, they are harassed by disease or plagued by contradictions in life. After all, they were very depressed.

Among people living with depression, nearly 40% of them suffer from depression.

In this way, the researchers came to the conclusion that whether you have money or not, in ten years from 45 to 55 years, people live unsatisfactorily.

Thousands of years ago, the "Book of Songs" had long said: "Shaking, like facing a cliff, is like walking on thin ice."

Everyone lives very uncomfortable, they are like facing a bottomless pit, stepping on a very thin ice surface, and they are always afraid of being human.

In fact, this is very real. Life is not a simple matter. This is especially true of middle-aged people who are still alive.

It is possible that you will face family conflicts in the next few moments, and there is a chance that you will face the realities of competition at work tomorrow. This is inevitable for middle aged people.

Because every age has its corresponding duties and contradictions. It's just that those who can stand the test will be able to break through the jam, while those who can't stand the test can lose their lives.

I once met a 49 year old friend who, although at his peak, his body was already in trouble.

For the sake of his family, he often works overtime at this age, so as not to be knocked out by the young people, he studies and fills his daily life without any space for free.

So, one day, he almost left with death.

That day, he was working overtime on a certain project. Who knows, his eyes darkened, and he fell heartlessly. Fortunately, there were workers working overtime beside him, so he was rushed to the hospital.

It was because of dizziness, he woke up after at least a day and night. The doctor also told the family that if the delivery was a few minutes late, he might leave.

After his friend heard about it, he was also shocked, he almost died at work, even he could barely see his wife and children.

The more he thought about it, the more afraid he became that he still had a second child to feed. It doesn't matter if he falls alone, but what should the child do?

At that time, he himself understood that his life was more important than work. Because this life belongs not only to himself, but also to his family.

When you reach the age of fifty, not only are you in a high-risk period, but even your family and relatives are in a high-risk period with you. This is one relationship after another.

Why do you say that when a person is fifty years old, it is a sad start to his old age?

In fact, old age here does not only refer to one's own age, but also the old age of spouses and parents.

I don't get along well, I don't have much money, and I have health problems. This is misfortune in my old age.

However, my misfortune is transitive. It is possible that your bad luck will be passed on to your children and your parents.

Just like the friend above, it is not good to say that if he really does go, then his parents should send the white-haired person to the black-haired person, the child will lose his father, and his wife will become a widow. .

In fact the whole family will become miserable and decline from then on.

Parents need to support their parents, children need to learn, and husbands and wives need to live, all of which need money. And money is made by whom, and we who live make it.

Moreover, they also need friends. If people leave, then they won't be happy at all.

People who reach fifty years of age are arguably the most "high-risk" period of life. Because people are a little careless, they will immediately fall into a "wall is falling and everyone is pushing down, and trees are falling and hunger is scattered."

Health, unemployment, family, life, interpersonal relationships, car loans and mortgages, these are all major issues that weigh on middle-aged people.

It could be said that if people were destroyed, there was no hope. Only if you are alive will there be a future where you can leave the green hills behind, and not worry about not having firewood.