should a woman "remarry"? Two women tell the truth for the rest of their lives

In community life, there is a tradition that women must be faithful and follow the principles of their husbands.

However, along with the times until now, people's thinking gradually became civilized, and the concept of marriage became more and more enlightened.

Therefore, some people think that a woman cannot be a man's accessory, and that he should have the right to pursue the rest of his life and pursue his own future.

In this case, someone asks the question, should a woman's husband have to remarry?

Many people on the Internet have expressed their opinion. And some women believe that they should not be held back for past affections, and that people should have the freedom to pursue "new love."

However, some men think that women should do their part, whether they are married or when they are widowed, they should be faithful.

These two statements actually have their own reasons. As long as we stand at different angles, the viewpoints we support are different.

If we want to know the answer to this question, we have to start with the person in question, and we had better listen to what the two women have to say.

Mrs Keysha: My husband died two years ago, I chose to remarry

Some time ago, Mrs Keysha, 40, brought her 10 year old son and married a divorced 45 year old man. They met and fell in love, then stepped into the wedding palace, it only took six months.

In fact, other parties also know that Mrs Keysha, 40 years old, is a widowed woman. Two years ago, her husband died in a car accident, leaving Mrs Keysha, mother and son, to live together.

Talking about how the two people met, actually, they met through the introduction of a friend.

Just one year after her husband died, Mrs Keysha wanted to marry another man. In the view of Mrs Keysha, she chose to remarry not only for herself, but also for her own children, which would be very tragic for a child without father's affection.

With that in mind, she ignored her family's opposition and firmly got along with the man. Even though that man also took a son, he accepted it.

After marriage, to make the relationship between the two parties more intimate, she confessed to the man that she wanted to have a child with him as a testimony of love.

It can be said that they are now on their way to have children.

In fact, whether it was Mrs Keysha or a divorced man, they were all united for their own purposes.

The first is to have a complete house. And the last? I just want to find a stepmother for my child, and I have some physical needs in it.

Aunt Mharta: My husband died five years ago, and I still can't help feeling lonely

Aunt Mharta is 53 years old this year, and her eldest child is married and has children. As someone else's grandmother, she now wants to remarry and reap the love she had in middle age.

Why did Aunt Mharta want to remarry? It's because her husband died five years ago. At that time, he actually didn't want to get married again. According to him, remarrying was embarrassing.

However, in the last five years of her life as a widow, Aunt Mharta found that she was already enduring the loneliness of having no husband by her side, so she wanted to find another man to accompany her for the rest of her life.

When he first got this idea, he didn't hide it, so he explained his inner thoughts directly to the boy. The child is also very open-minded and believes that his mother has the freedom to pursue his own life.

In this way, with the support of her children, Auntie Mharta embarked on a journey to find a second spring.

And she met a 55 year old man at the home of one of her relatives. The man was actually doing business with his relatives, and his wife died early, so the two met each other.

Later, the man told the woman if he could live together. Although he would not share family property with her, he would be in charge of the woman's food, clothing, housing and transportation for the rest of her life.

What about Aunt Mharta? She herself believed that she did not pursue love for money. Since she owned several houses along with her children, it goes without saying that she coveted other people's possessions.

From then on, the two families casually ate and walked past the scene. And Aunt Mharta is also living with this man now, however, the two sides get along well.

Here, we thought, should a woman "remarry" after her husband has died for so many years?

In fact, it depends on people's own choices and opinions. If this person wants to have a companion, someone who can get rid of his loneliness, then he chooses to remarry.

However, if you feel like you don't want to throw anymore, and can't hold your face, women can choose to live alone.

Since the world is free, as long as you don't violate the rules and ethics of society, the way you choose is your personal matter.

You know, love is not condensed, and feelings can also be changed. So, how people want to live and how to live is related to their own choices.

There is a very good saying, no matter how humans evolve, their essence is free.

Therefore, when we leave the old concept of "husband is wife", what we really see is a world where everyone is pursuing freedom.

Life can be free, love can be free, marriage can be free too.