Older women, why do they like "young and strong" men? Come and talk

One writer once wrote: "All love can transcend the boundaries of time and space."

What is love? This is a person's physiological response to a certain opposite sex. After the physiological needs are met, they will gradually increase to become spiritual needs.

This kind of demand is a manifestation of the united love of the sexes.

In everyday life, we can often see that some men, especially they like young and beautiful women, and even feel love at first sight.

Why this happened? It's because men can't resist the temptations of young women, so they want to conquer each other.

This way, most people think that only men will like younger women as they get older. But what is not known is that women also have such hobbies.

In the psychology of love, there is a saying that goes like this, love that reaches the ages is people's dissatisfaction with the current situation.

Just like some women, even though they are getting old, they have craved the life of "young" men and women in their hearts. It comes from nature, but also from one's pursuit of love across time and space.

Things that are too normal may not catch people's attention, but only things that are more mysterious and hazy will keep people lingering.

As for the older women, the more they like the "young and strong" guy, we'd better listen to what these two women have to say.

Aunt Jeana: My husband died five years ago, and I fell in love with a young man

Aunt Jeana is 55 this year, and her husband also died five years ago in an accident. And his only child, now working in the field.

In the last few years of her widowhood, Aunt Jeana found that her own life was becoming increasingly lonely.

Coincidentally, Aunt Jeana saw a 49 year old man in a square dance, he is actually a divorced person and has no family members or children.

Hence, these two people got better at a one-to-two exchange. And Aunt Jeana also felt that this man was still very good, at least he was quite in line with her appetite.

Once, she invited the man to her house as a guest, and the two parties cooked together and talked together. However, they got along well and were happy.

Aunt Jeana also invited her to live with herself and said to her: "You're not young anymore. I feel like we both had a pretty good time together. Why don't you come to live with me in the future? Can you?"

After hearing what Aunt Jeana said, the man was really touched.

According to her, the husband of the other party has passed away, and she is divorced, there is nothing wrong with living with her in the future. From then on, he agreed.

And Aunt Jeana also sighed, fell in love with a young man, at first to get rid of loneliness, but then for love.

Miss Sherlly: With young men, the icebergs in my heart have melted

As an urban white collar worker, Miss Sherlly is single at 38 years old. Even though she looked good, it was because she was too demanding in the past that she never married.

When he was 39 years old, he suddenly discovered that if he didn't get married, he would grow old, and it would not be easy to live alone in the future. From then on, he was ready to go on blind dates everywhere.

The results can be said to be predictable. Most men reject her after knowing her age, and some even wonder, what should I do if I have children at that old age?

However, if you are intentionally planting flowers but not blooming, you are accidentally planting willows and willows. In her desperation, she met a man at a dinner party, she would say she was touched.

This man is actually 5 years younger than Miss Sherlly, and he has never been married.

Maybe because the two of them have similar personalities, so after talking a few times, the two of them had a good impression of each other. And Miss Sherlly also told her that she wished she could accompany herself.

The man also said that the time spent with him was the happiest day of his life.

Since then, the two have married after half a year of loving each other.

And after she got married, Miss Sherlly often thought that she could meet this man when she would turn 40, which was a blessing she instilled in her last life.

In fact, whether men like young women or women like young men, this is just a special situation in love.

Nobody asks a woman to find a man older than her. Because love is not only based on age, but also on feelings and attitudes when getting along with one another.

We must understand that love does not divide space and time, as long as both parties can act according to the rules and do not act across borders, then all love is appropriate.

Like Aunt Jeana above, her husband has been dead for five years, and she has also been widowed for five years. However, when she met the second spring of her life, she went to fight for it. It was her personal choice.

Just like Miss Sherlly above, you could say that she was no longer young when she married. However, as long as a man likes her, why can't she accept it?

Therefore, the older women are, the more they like men who are "young and strong," which is a woman's physical and spiritual needs.

Aunt Jeana has spiritual needs, while Miss Sherlly hopes someone can warm her up. Hence, the two sides were a good match.

Do not think that love is solid, actually the essence of love is like a continuous stream of water, enough to nourish the heart.