I didn't understand until I was 50 years old. Being human is a disaster

Someone once said that if you wanted to leave you in this era, you wouldn't even say hello.

This society, no matter what stage it develops, will only be a society of "the strongest of natural selection and survival," a society of the law of the jungle.

When people were young, many of us thought society was friendly to us. As long as we are willing to work hard, there will be results.

Especially people who grew up in greenhouses, they only saw the brilliance of some successful people in society and thought that they too could be brilliant. As everyone knows, most people are just humble people in the swamp.

When people grow slowly and slowly age, in fact, people themselves become realistic. Because they know that if this society wants to destroy someone, it's very simple.

Speaking of destruction, there is actually a saying in "The Old Man and the Sea" that is very inspiring, you can beat me, but you can never beat me.

But this is only "chicken soup" in literature. In this society, how many people can become frustrated without fail?

Being outside, maybe we will feel that simple. But once a person experiences constant torment, then this person will be at a loss.

Don't persuade others to be nice to others without suffering. Some people, they have been fighting for 20 or 30 years, but are still left by society, are helpless.

Some time ago, a reader left a message in the background.

Since 2020, the factory has suffered losses. After 2021, he finally couldn't support it, and went bankrupt.

He was originally a "rich man" in the village, and he was praised by his neighbors. Some people even said that being able to live with this man was a kind of luck.

However, when the factory closed, all was lost. Most people are far from their homes, and even relatives don't come with them anymore.

At that moment, he realized that he was truly "a real brother with money and wine, never seeing anyone in trouble." Without money, people can only be more humble than the mud under their feet.

In order to support his family and pay off debts he previously had, he not only mortgaged his house, but also sold his car. Now he can only go out looking for work alone.

Because he is more than 50 years old this year, and his two sons are almost married. If he doesn't work hard to make money and turn the current situation around, then his house will literally "degenerate".

He goes to the city to find work, but there is no company in town that employs people over 45. No way, he could only ask his former comrades to accept it.

But the partner explained that his own business situation was not good, and he hoped that the old man could find his own way.

This timid middle-aged man discovered the cruelty of this society for the first time, that is, if you want to work or do simple work, no one wants you.

Because of that, he could only do odd jobs.

When he saw that there was a construction site that needed coolies to do it, he struggled to do it. Even if he was suffering from a chronic illness, he could only bite his fingers and do it.

Why would someone prefer not to die, and make worthless money? It's very simple, because if he doesn't make money, it will be difficult for him to endure the next moment.

One evening, he had a drink with a worker he had just met at a diner and said emotionally: "I've been hanging out for 30 years. I thought a way out was ahead, but I didn't know it was just ruined ..."

A large man in his 50s actually cried in public while talking about his sad past.

After his coworkers saw him, they were speechless, they just drank with him there and saw him cry.

At the age of 50, this is middle age and middle age. If this person works in a corporate unit, then he must be at the top.

However, how many people in this world could reap such beauty?

Therefore, the reader of this letter, he could only look for work everywhere, and was rejected everywhere. He can only earn the lowest level of money and live a life with enormous gaps.

"After struggling for 30 years, I was finally abandoned by society."

How many thirty years can life be? If a person can live to be 90 years old, then that person will only have thirty years.

But in 30 years of middle age and middle age, there is only one person. Once these thirty years have been wasted, or in other words, wasted by time and reality, no matter how hard one works, there will be nothing in the end.

In this case, some people will say that just doing your best is enough. Why must you be so negative?

Do your best, if this society is only trying to do their best, then everyone can live a very happy life. Because most people, they are the best in life.

However, not everyone will be rewarded if they try their best. Like the reader mentioned above, he had struggled for his own factory for years, but due to changes in the environment, his efforts were in vain.

You could say that many people today say that they can eat and wear warmth, but is this what they want?

The reason a person struggles is because he sees hope for the future. But if there is no hope, then what is the use of the so-called struggle?

There is a very good saying, being a man is doom.

For those who have achieved fame and success, perhaps being human means coming to enjoy blessings and experiences. But for those who can't see hope, this world is hell. This is an irreversible fact.