Enforced these three kinds of "relationships" and bury themselves in hidden dangers.

When people reach middle age, one must endure not only external pressures, but also internal contradictions and burdens.

Outside, people have to face competition in the workplace. Once people don't pay attention, they will be kicked out of the game and become a springboard for others to promote and raise their salaries.

In addition, many people have to deal with interpersonal relationship problems. If it is not handled properly, it will easily invade people's lives and make the community the target of public criticism.

And inside, people have to face family relationships and contradictions. But it's because of family issues that make people feel very sick.

Many are middle-aged people, they are not crushed by external pressure, but by internal situations.

In this situation of "internal and external problems", some will wonder, what can we do to relieve their own pain and live more freely and freely?

In fact, it has to start with an "inside and outside" relationship. Because any relationship that exists in this world is a source of pain and helplessness.

When people reach middle age, a sane person will do well to get rid of unnecessary relationships. Irrational people will force all three types of "relationships" to bury the dangers that are hidden for the rest of their lives.

Don't force "unnecessary" relatives when you reach middle age

What people pay most attention to are family and feelings between families. Many people believe that relatives between families are definitely the best.

It can be said that this is just the wish of most people. No relative in this world is kind to you. Many of them want you to live unlucky.

This is not to say "save the stomach of a man with an evil heart." That is, they treat you well, often not out of sincerity, but because of purpose.

If you have a good life, other people may flatter you on the surface, but deep down they hope that you will fall soon, and you can't see that you have a good life.

And if you have a bad time, they will be very happy. Because they can go beyond you and get their own face and psychological balance in some way.

From a human psychological perspective, the closer the people are, the more likely they are to be "hostile" to one another. Because the distance between the two sides was too close, there was no sense of distance.

In the end, the development of a sense of intimacy is not intimacy, but disgust. And only with a certain "sense of distance" in it can this relationship be balanced.

When you are middle-aged, no matter how mixed up, don't force your relationship with "unnecessary" relatives. This will make you humble and worthless.

When you reach middle age, don't force the relationship "pretense and hypocrisy"

When a person survives in society, he will encounter many lies and many people who have no real feelings.

These people, whether they are your relatives or friends, are nothing but "hypocrite" chameleons.

Someone once said that most people think that the chameleon in the world who knows best about incognito in this world is the chameleon in nature.

When someone's hypocrisy reaches an extreme, that person has actually undergone a profound change. It was her words and her heart, the two of which were incompatible.

The so-called "different heart, different expression" is this truth.

Such people are actually very common. Maybe, he is your colleague, he is your friend, he is your elder ... In short, hypocrisy knows no bounds, but depends on human nature.

For the average middle-aged person, don't have to deal with these "hypocrites" too often. Since people are tired of life, if you are still in the throes of right and wrong, you will only worry.

When you enter middle age, you can meet someone who has a sincere heart, that's the luck that God bestows on you. On the other hand, knowing how to leave those who are hypocrites, is your great wisdom who has gone through changes in life.

When you reach middle age, don't force "inappropriate" relationships.

What kind of people you can meet and what kind of relationships you meet is not really determined by you, but by your destiny.

Don't talk about anything else, just talk about your marriage. When you think back to your marriage, you will sigh. It turns out you could marry this person, which you didn't expect.

This is his destiny. The person you like, he doesn't go with you, it means you have no destiny and have no part. And people you don't pay attention to, they come to you, it's your destiny.

No matter how old people live, they must understand that destiny is something that can be fulfilled but not sought. You can't stop it when you have to come. And when it doesn't come, even if you beg, it won't.

It can be said that when people reach middle age, don't force them to remain in "inappropriate" relationships. It's a wise way for people.

It is like you meet a Guru, but other people do not find your strength or ignore you. So, let it go, don't get too involved.

When fate comes, you get it too. When destiny ends, everything will be in vain.

We are all members of the ordinary world, it is enough if we do not try to be rich or powerful, but live in peace of mind.