Couples separated beds for years, can a woman maintain "loneliness"?

Someone once said that the age of true love is long gone, and now only you love yourself.

What is true love? It's just that you treated me well for a while, and I treated you as usual.

However, along with the development of society until now, this so-called "true love" seems to have undergone extraordinary changes. Because love is not love, and humans are not humans.

The relationship between people is no longer a "pay for one point, get one point" relationship. It's possible that your full of love will just be traded for someone else's random ignorance.

Just like some couples, when a conflict arises between the two of them, there will be "cold war" behavior, or cracks that are hard to fix.

Thus, the behavior of sleeping in separate rooms due to contradictions will occur more frequently.

When talking about "sleeping in separate rooms", we should be aware that some couples do not sleep in separate rooms because of conflict, but because they cannot stand the certain behavior of the other party and choose to sleep in separate rooms.

Sleeping in separate rooms alone alienates the relationship between husband and wife. It is possible to sleep in separate rooms for a long time, which will make people feel more or less restless.

It is possible that some people cannot bear to be lonely and choose to betray, and it is possible that some people feel empty inside and choose to leave quietly.

Some may ask, if a partner slept in separate rooms for many years, would a woman have a relationship with another man? People who come to tell the truth are very easy.

Paquo: I slept in separate rooms for five years, but my wife betrayed me

Paquo and his wife, Mona, have been married for 13 years. During these 13 years, they had strife and thoughts of divorcing, but they have survived to this day.

Even if Miss Mona didn't like Paquo in the past, it's not good here, and there are problems there, Mr. Paquo should endure it. Because he believes as long as his wife still loves himself.

However, love is not that simple. It is possible that your wrong choices will spoil this love.

When Paquo and Mona's marriage reached its eighth year, Mona actually didn't like Paquo and just wanted to get away from him.

This way, the two people could only sleep in separate rooms. At that time, Paquo thought that only his wife wanted a quiet place, so he ignored it.

Apart from frequent trips for business, the behavior of dividing rooms for sleeping is actually not a big problem for him. The biggest problem is that it is difficult to let what you want when it comes.

Paquo knows that his wishes are hard to let out, but he doesn't think that his wife is also human. How can he give her wishes?

From then on, Paquo was very far from his wife at a distance and physically, and the marriage appeared in an unexpected crisis.

One morning in the morning, Mr. Paquo found out, why is his wife still not sleeping? Even if the child does not attend boarding school, he never sleeps late into the night before being asked to look after him.

Intrigued, Paquo discovered that his wife was sneering in front of the phone screen, and he also made abnormal sounds from time to time.

Out of respect for his wife's privacy, he still didn't say anything, nor did he allow himself to think about it, instead, he chose to return to his room to sleep and had to go to work tomorrow.

In the morning, while she was still washing, Mona was well dressed and came out.

At this time, Mr. Paquo asked his wife, it will not work if you dress so beautifully. Who do you want to meet? When Miss Mona hears it, she answers and asks you to take care of it.

In this way, the conversation between husband and wife becomes messy.

When he was driving to work, he noticed a traffic jam on the road he used to walk, so he changed his path. And because of this change, he saw from the car window that his wife appeared to be walking with a man, and even got into his car.

In that case, the more Mr. Paquo thought about it, the more wrong it would be. A married man, you went to find a strange man in such beautiful clothes, what would he want to do?

From then on, Mr. Paquo followed them. In addition, he also asked his wife's colleagues about her current situation.

It doesn't matter if you don't ask, She only found out after she asked that a guy used to come pick her up from work recently.

Later, after stalking and asking questions, he realized that his wife was in love with this man and had often been in unnecessary relationships with him.

Regarding this, Mr. Paquo didn't know what to do, and he sighed, could it be that the reason for his wife's betrayal was to sleep in separate rooms for five years?

Here the question arises, do husband and wife sleep in separate rooms, does one party fuse to steal fish?

From a physiological point of view, it can be said to be a fuse. But from another perspective, the split room is just a phenomenon of the weakening of the husband and wife relationship, and not a fuse at all.

What is the real fuse? It is these men and women who have long lost love and affection, only an endless sense of disgust and alienation.

Just imagine, when a woman hates a man so much, she doesn't want him to touch her at all. So, can the relationship between the two people be better?

I believe that even though it is a man who humbly begs for all, it does not always change the mind of an already indifferent woman.

Because things like feelings are not as lasting as diamonds, but they are easily damaged. It's possible that if you're not careful, your feelings will become flowing water, passing over time.

There is such a law, as long as there is a lack of contact between husband and wife, then one of the two people will definitely be disloyal.

Here, it remains to be said that the relationship of the two parties can be better reconciled without dividing the room.