One of the strongest feelings that makes the world move "Love" has a basic principle of trust, this principle anchored to our values, feelings, way of thinking and acting is undoubtedly one of the most important we have to maintain balance in our relationships, including the first and most lasting relationship, with ourselves.

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The development of confidence takes time and is not an easy job but when it is achieved we become stronger and it is forever. When we talk about self-confidence it is a learning process that begins in childhood when we are very young. Creating and developing confidence in childhood begins with the phrases of acceptance that our parents use to refer to us, that is why the recommendation is to make positive reinforcement of successful behaviors, is to tell children "you can do it", "you are smart", "I love you", "you are valuable", "you are a complete being" and all those phrases that make our children develop confidence in themselves.

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Once we have developed confidence since childhood, it is very difficult to lose it in the course of our existence, unless we, ourselves, reach a mental breaking point where we separate ourselves from what we are and what we have learned. However, in the worst circumstances and moments, a person who trusts in himself will hardly be defeated because he will have the power to get up as many times as he needs, that is why it is better to educate healthy children than to repair broken adults, as they say over there.

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To have confidence in oneself is to know oneself perfectly and to know one's strengths and weaknesses. Those who are confident in their abilities and skills always give the best of themselves to make their lives and their environment a better place. A person who trusts in himself does not need the approval of others because he knows that he acts according to his values, his rational, mental and spiritual being. A person who trusts in himself does not compare himself with others, he does not look for in others what he has within himself. A person who trusts in himself is capable of recognizing himself and asserting his rights at any time. That is why we must learn to have confidence in ourselves from a very young age, it protects us from disappointments and especially from the bad things that can happen to us by following patterns and models of others.

For the development of confidence when we are adults and we are just starting this wonderful process of self-love, it is necessary to be kind to ourselves, to be loving and to avoid judging ourselves for everything. We must be clear that as human beings each one of us is different and that is why insisting on comparing ourselves brings us sadness and anxiety because in very few opportunities we will be equal to others. Some tips that allow us to develop and strengthen our confidence are:

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1.- Eliminate negative thoughts, especially those that are towards your own life.

2.- When you have problems or difficulties focus on solutions, this will allow you to see your qualities and abilities to get ahead.

3.- Always remember who you are and your values.

4.- Design your own goals and dreams. The principle of confidence is based on the knowledge of ourselves and especially of our aspirations. That is why it is important to have our own goals and dreams.

**5.- Find your inner strength and those reasons to trust you. No one but you knows what you need for your life to be truly successful. **

My dear readers, I hope you find this post useful. It is about how important it is to believe in ourselves and remember that trust is a fundamental principle for love to exist in our lives. Especially self-love. Health, life and prosperity.