"SEC S11W1: Challenging Your Beliefs about Motherhood and Fatherhood"

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I am the child of my parents. Every parent is very happy when they give birth to a child. Because today the creator Allah has given them the opportunity to become parents. If my parents had not given birth to you. Then they would have remained incomplete. Because when a man and a woman give birth, they are complete. Because if a child is not born in a family then that family remains incomplete.

When the creator Allah Taala gives children to any man or woman and does not. Giving thanks to the creator Allah Ta'ala and supplicating to Him in all situations. He should be remembered in whatever state he is in. Allah gives children to some and He does not give children to others.

There are many who, after having a child, kill the child. There are also people who do not get children even after praying to God. It is primarily through the child that wholeness is achieved and incompleteness becomes.

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Every human has dreams. A beautiful life is built with small dreams. When a person becomes a parent, their responsibility is to nurture and nurture their children.

Children must learn from their parents. Because the child's first teacher is the parent. Parents learn from their parents and their children develop accordingly. Many people find that after having children, they can no longer fulfill their own dreams. Always busy with children. If a person has faith in himself and can do everything accordingly on time. Then I think his own dreams and his family's dreams will never be disturbed.

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I think I should put my dreams aside. Because it can be seen that if my own dream is realized by oppressing the children then I should not! There are many scenes that show that the child has a different talent if it can be well supported by the family and nurtured in that way, then it can create a beautiful future and a beautiful environment. And if that child is not held up as such and forced to fulfill his dreams through him, it will never yield good results.

So I think dreams are completely different for each person. So everyone's dream should be realized.

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This child is a gift from Allah. If you pay a little attention to different hospitals or if you question the married life of those who do not have children, you will find the answers to these questions by yourself.

I think this view of not having children is completely stupid. Because when you want us not to have children. But the creator Allah wants to give children. If you are aware enough of these things. After spending 3-4 long years without having children like this. When you want to have children again. Then it was seen that the creator Allah is not giving you children anymore. Many couples lead such a life that they never have children even if they want them later. This is why they remain incomplete.

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Yes definitely need to be financially and physically prepared. Because when a person does not have financial stability and physical health, it is difficult for him to get married.

Because financial stability is a must when you get married and have children. So I need you to be diligent. Because if I don't earn money, how can I support him? Work hard and pray to the creator Allah. Allah Ta'ala will surely give financial prosperity and physical health.

Idleness can never give a person physical health and well-being. So physical fitness and financial well-being must be overcome before becoming parents or getting married.

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