GROW WELL

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"Aww, you've grown so well."

People often hear these words, and whenever they do, there are people who respond with a friendly smile and a polite demeanor. It is also said to be of good quality. It must have been the result of receiving a good home education, so I admire my parents as well as very educated and wonderful people. Be the pride of the family, asking how the red beans will come out of growing beans.

The hallmark of these supposedly good-breeds is that they are strong in the show. Whether it's a tragedy where they grit their teeth and do their best with serious expressions, or a comedy where they interact with people with natural smiles and exaggerated gestures, but still with a slightly shy feel, they're generally good at playing. in social relationships and enjoy them.

In other words, they are smart on stage.

What does this mean?

The essence of a well-bred person is that he is a smart child.

You can tell if you think about it honestly.

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We never tell anyone who, no matter how great he looks, doesn't show us any boos, that he doesn't look very cute to us, that he's grown up really well. I prefer to say

"I must have lived a very hard life."

Ultimately, the key factor leading to the judgment that he has grown well is his easily exposed appearance, that is, his words and actions allow us to experience him.

If so, how is this joy realized?

It was actually set up as a defense against tension.

The reason well-bred people use and joke in front of people is to relieve the tension caused by people. When people laugh at your ingenuity, the tension seems to go away with that laugh.

To be nervous is to be afraid. This good offspring is what people are afraid of. That is why a well-bred person dedicates all his energy to turning the people who frighten him into objects he no longer fears.

It's like a child trying to make him feel better by playing.

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But what is this kid really trying to do now?

It's just control

The child is now filled with a desire to control.

The desire to control is the desire to make fear out of fear.

Those who thrive on form and playfulness are actually those who have a lot of desire to control.

They want to control everything.

This lust for control begins with the intention to relieve tension by turning the fear into something fearless, but as the desire develops into something greater like this, the lust for control becomes an element of pleasure and pleasure. Those who act with a desire to control find pleasure and pleasure in controlling everything.