The Diary Game: Navigating Relationship Challenges (17-04-2025)

Hello my fellow steemians, how are you all doing? Yesterday was so amazing but y'all know that it rains before sunshine, I had my own share and dose of trouble before it became amazing. First, it started like all normal days from me waking up to doing my chores, brushing my teeth and going back to bed to read for my examination. While reading, my friend told me he wanted to use my phone for something so I handed him the phone, I forgot I had gone out with a guy the previous day and didn't inform him. I wanted to start confessing when I remembered but I just thought to myself that he'll focus on what he wanted to do with the phone and return it when he was done.

I became hungry and I stood up to go breakfast breakfast. I bought custard from the nearby store and other things I'll need for the breakfast and made custard when I got home. My friend and I ate and I had my bath and left to school because it was almost time for the examination. Before leaving, I told my friend to bring the phone for me when he's done with what he's doing, he agreed and I left. I got to school and wrote my examination and went home shortly, I slept off when I got home and woke up really late and my friend was nowhere to be found so I got dressed and went to his place.

On getting to his place, he was asleep so I didn't disturb him, I took money from his wallet and bought snacks because I was hungry and ate. I watched movie afterwards before he woke up because of the noise from the movie, He suddenly asked who I went out with and why I told a guy I was single. I told him who I went out with and the reason I told someone I was single which was some months back when we had an issue and I wasn't thinking of working things out again and he was angry saying I've been looking outside all these time while he turns down people's proposal for them to go out. To me, it was just an harmless outing but I never knew it'd hurt him that much, I apologized for straight four hours before I was forgiven.

I was one hell of an experience, I felt very bad. I still apologized again at intervals even when he said it was okay and he asked me to get dressed so we could go out and get something for dinner. We went out and bought foodstuffs and I was also gotten a shawarma and drink. We went back home and I prepared dinner of rice and sauce. Originally, I was supposed to make kpomo sauce but I thought we've been regular with it so I had to improvise. I bought beef and chopped it into tiny pieces and made sauce with it and it came out really nice.

We went out for a walk after dinner, I was still feeling bad shaa and I apologized again and he said it's okay. We got talking and he told me that recently, I have not kept to my promise of giving him peace of peace. That alone hit differently because it was true and it started when I was accused of something and since then, I lost interest in the relationship and couldn't tell him we should go on a break or even break up because we're in a contract relationship. But I decided to change and I told him that I'll make it up to him, we then talked about other things and rushed back home because it was beginning to rain.

Both relationship and single life is not easy but if you decide to be in a relationship, I think your partner's feelings should be considered and I was being selfish, always thinking of myself alone. Nothing pains me than knowing I'm always at fault in this relationship, Omo guilt wan wound me. We had our bath when we got home and picked up shawarma and drink and enjoyed while watching movie.

My friend still asked for food, saying he's hungry so we ate another food before going to bed. That's how yesterday unfolded but I'm glad it ended well for me because I saw a cryptic post my friend made saying " This will not end well for some people" and I knew e don sup! I spared few minutes to blog before going to bed. Hope you enjoyed your read but wait, if you it were you, what would've you done after apologizing for hours but got no response?